Well it's only been a little over 24 hours and my group has already received a post from a PAP asking "WHY can't positive stories be posted too......?"   (imagine whiny voice - LOL!)

I'm flattered that someone thinks that my day-old group could prevent a woman from placing!  (Her words although I forget how she phrased it.)

Must mean we're headed in the right direction ladies!

Let's all give ourselves a pat on the back!

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yoshi...
Aug. 4, 2008 at 2:03 AM

what is your group?


 

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bless...
Aug. 4, 2008 at 2:04 AM

And am I the only one who finds it amusing that PAP's have no problem with groups that are STRICTLY positive?   As a good friend told me, PAP's don't go around insisting that those groups show both sides, but they're sure offended when groups like mine don't.


 

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bless...
Aug. 4, 2008 at 2:05 AM

Hi Yoshiki,


My new group is called  "Open Adoption Truths"


Don't know if you're involved in adoption, but thanks for checking out my post and for asking.


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bless...
Aug. 4, 2008 at 2:09 AM

Oh and the PAP in question sent an ugly little message to one of our members.  What a contradiction to the sweet  "Dear Birthmother"  letter she has on her page....how curious........

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adopt...
Aug. 4, 2008 at 4:16 AM

Daria wrote:  "What a contradiction to the sweet  "Dear Birthmother"  letter she has on her page...."


ya know- its all so twisted!  Gotta love those paps and amoms who act out in this way!! 

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South...
Aug. 4, 2008 at 1:01 PM

Consider this a pat on your back!  Yes, the indignant pap who screamed bloody murder about wanting to write about positive open adoptions in your group was pretty mean-spirited.  I particularly took offense about her mention that "some pyschologists believe that women who consider adoption for their unplanned pregnancies, but instead parent are at greater risk to abuse their children."  I wonder if psychologists would say that paps like her are more likely to close adoptions? I bet that is the case.


 

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oneth...
Aug. 4, 2008 at 9:11 PM

Southernroots did you add her to your list?

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Momzi...
Aug. 6, 2008 at 2:36 AM

""some pyschologists believe that women who consider adoption for their unplanned pregnancies, but instead parent are at greater risk to abuse their children." "


I have yet to hear ANY credible psychologist espouse THAT garbage.   What are her references? 

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bless...
Aug. 6, 2008 at 3:34 AM

Well I wish I could tell you what her references are, but I failed to copy and paste the post and keep it in a file on my computer.....I deleted it....next time I'll save something like that somewhere. 

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South...
Aug. 6, 2008 at 5:40 PM

Unfortunately, she deleted her post before we thought to copy it.  I did respond to her and told her that I could find far more psychologists who would disagree with her comment. I don't believe she really had any reference....think it was only in her own head. Too bad, she SHOULD be on my list.

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