The Marriage Survey

[katy7980]

The Marriage Survey

How did you and your Husband meet? We met through my ex-boyfriend (ohh the scandel :)...

How long did you date before getting engaged? 1 yr 

Engaged before getting married? 9 months

How did he purpose? He was station in Oki,Japan and I went to see him for the X'mas and New Year and before I left he asked me in the hotel lobby.

How long have you been married? 8 years

Did you live together before getting married? nope

What is your first kiss story? We were in LA for 4 day weekend; he had his friend their and I had my sister we just hanging out. We were flirting for about 2 day and on the 3rd night he kiss me

Who said I love you first? he did,

When did you know that he was the 'one'? THAT VERY FIRST KISS I KNEW HE WAS THE ONE!!

Describe your wedding and honeymoon?  My husband got sick the day before the wedding(bad shrimp). My sisters were my bridemaids/maid of honor.. The flowers arrived late and so did my dad. My sil dress ripped before we enter the church,lol. After the church we dance @ reception almost until 12am. WE went to the Poconos for our honeymoon.

Describe your marriage in one word? Great

In what ways have you changed since getting married? Ive become more assertive in every aspect of my life.

Rate your Marriage 1-10  8.5

Is your marriage defined with set roles (work, childcare, chores) Are marriages is defined with roles in a sense... He works and provides for the family, Im a SAHM and take care of the house, kid, and cooking. We usually do errands together, we spend are free time together as a family, He does all the yardwork, I handle the bills and budget..etc

Do you have similar or different partenting styles? Mostly similiar, pretty strict. Time for fun but also a time work,too.

Have you ever written or recieved a love letter to eachother? Yes both, I have a small chest filled w/ our love letters.

What if any political differences do you have? Does this matter? Were both republicans, we have alot of the same views on things, we dont discuss politics that often. I dont think it matters.

What if any religious differencesdo you have? Does this matter? I'm catholic and he has no particular religion even though he was raised catholic. No, cause he really isn't religious.

Are there any special or unique things you do as a couple to show eachother love? Oh we have date night, we just rent/ or got to movies. We enjoy each other company.We try to workout together. If you see us together were being affectionate, and even if its been heard 50 times that day...I love you's never get old. To me this kind of relationship is unique.

What are your favorite family holidays/traditions? We both love Halloween (lots of candies). Thanksgiving ,Manny always seasons the turkey and truly comes soo moist,yummy.

Name the 1 secret to couples who have been married over 30 years? Communication

What is your song/song that reminds you of him? 'the song that reminds me of hubby is by Eric Church,"Guys Like Me'

Describe your relationship with your inlaws? It's nice as long they stay on their side.

Describe his with yours? My parents adore him...how couldnt you :)

Why do you think he is attractive? He's tall,  muscular, sexy, his walk, how he talks, how he dresses, his smell,  everything about that man is just right!!!!

Would you rather all women thought he was as attractive as you do or none? Id rather noone except me :)

Who wears the pants in your marriage and why? Were equal in the since that we both feel what the other contributes to the marriage and family is of the same importance but Id say he wears the pants. He's a man and I treat him like one. I love to cater to him, spoil him, he always asks for my opinion or approval out of respect but wouldn't have to because he could have anything and everything his little heart disires...and Id give it to him :)

For what reason would you ever consider divorce? It would take abuse...other than that I would not consider divorce.

Where do you see your marriage in 5 years/20 yrs? In 5 years I see us probably w/ one more child and in 20yrs probably living in texas.

The 10 most important aspects of a happy marriage are? Love,Trust, Communication, Passion, Loyalty, Respect, Romance,  Fun, Support, Honor

Do you feel your marriage has all 10 of these?  and some

Who is/Who is more: [answer with me, him or both]

Smarter: Both      Openminded: both   Social: him     Confident: him

Stubborn:me      Attractive: Both      Jealous: Both        Sensitive: me

Better cook: Me   Tempermental: neither    Neater: Me           Hardworking: Him

Fun: Both            Nuturing: Me       Honest: Both        Spiritual:neither

Romantic:him      Political: neither      Patient: both          Fashionable: him

Sexual: Both        Interesting: Him     Witty: Him            Loud: Him

Responsible:Both  Friendly: Him