This was originally intended for me re-commit group but wanted to share part of it with all my friends. Even if weight is not an issue for all of you, change can be difficult for all of us.
I love this time of year. It signifies change. Sometimes change can be so hard for many of us. For me I embrace it. I cherish the summer I have had with my children but also look forward to the season changing, getting back into a routine and setting a new schedule.
Think about your children growing one year older. For me it is a monumental year. My baby is entering full day kindergarten. I am trying to not be too weepy about it because as much as I will miss her sweet face and the times we have together, I know he is growing up. She is a wonderful little person who I want to embrace change as I have. She will make new friends, learn to read, face new challenges, and so on. My boy going into third grade will learn new skills, adapt to another teacher, new rules, new friends...CHANGE. The kids do it every year. Why not push ourselves to also do the same?
As I am excited for their little lives and what will unfold for each of them this year I ask myself what will I do for change? How can I expect more of myself? I have come up with a few things. I expect to make this year about growth in my company, getting out with Dave to his jobs, and pushing myself personally more than I ever have. Since I do not have to work outside my home and my job heavily relies on my physical changes I am going to push myself to places I am uncomfortable and unfamiliar. I want to be stronger physically and mentally.
Which brings me to ask you this...Where do you want to be? Is it time to make yourself a priority? To ask more of yourself than you ever have? I believe in me and I believe in you. Together we can be strong. We are women, mothers, wives, daughter, sisters and friends. I feel like once your head is in the right place nothing can slow us down.
So as the seasons begin to change, our little worlds will change...Embrace the change. Embrace your independence. Embrace making YOU a better YOU. Let 2008 go out with a bang so that 2009 will be all about new changes. Starting things you have been afraid to do because maybe weight, self confidence, and food held you back before.
I am excited for the changes. Sure, it is scary. I am human and there is always a voice that is trying to hold me back from being my very best but it is up to me to SQUASH that voice and embrace my changes I am choosing to make.


Tags: change, school, fitness, workout, working out, motivation, diet, online fitness coach
you are just darn right a genius!!!! i love your writings they are so inspiring! you are great!! get changing for the better! you can do it! and i can too!
OMG thank you for making me cry...I see so many changes coming. Its hard sometimes to step out of our "boxes" and I have heard that voice many times pushing me back in my "box". But after the hardest and scariest year of my life...That voice is quiet for now. Thank you my dear friend for your inspiration whether on your porch or in your journals, you are truly a one of a kind friend. If you miss your sweeties as much as I will miss Owen...We can share Ashwey!
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My oldest is going off to college in 12 days. I am scared mostly how much we'll miss him and him missing out on stuff happening at home. I'm worried will he eat right, get enough exercise and not coop himself up in the dorm? But now that I know where he'll be (we spent the nite in the dorms last month) and saw the community I feel more at ease about it. It's just that first hurdle I need to get over. Him growing up, well thats been happening already - this is where the bird flies from the nest.
Thanks for posting. I will re-read this when I need it most.
Change is hard, but it comes weather we want it to or not, so we may as well embrace it, as you say! Great journal!
Awww our kids are both facing the same thing and in away so are we. We both have one going to kindergarten and one to 3rd grade. My home will be a little emptier during the day but I too will find a way to change. I have already begun and hopefully it will continue to get better. Thanks for the inspiration. I hope soon to join you in the company. I'll have to pm you and let you know what's going on here. Talk to ya later girlie. Oh btw I have lost 11lbs.....wooohoooo. hehe
What a great journal! I thank you for this, because change is really hard for me, but I am trying to embrace it more!
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What a wonderful journal!!! Very inspiring. Your children are beautiful girl!!!
maurel80 Aug. 11, 2008 at 11:04 AM