No it does not make you a bad friend.  Just be happy for her and be happy that your little girl will be in her wedding. You never know there may be a reason why she didn't ask you like she asked family or because she wanted to make sure that your daughter wouldn't get scared and want mommy and if mommy is in the wedding she wouldn't be able to help her little girl.  I would offer to help her if she needed it and leave it at that.  Hope you feel better about her choice and if it is really bothering you that much...ask her why she did not chose you.

butterfli4201 Aug. 12, 2008 at 7:38 PM

well i know who she chose and noone is family.. and analiese will be like 2 and a half and probably would do better with me up front then not but well see. lol.. but thanks. :) i amv ery happy for her.. not the fondest of her fiancee but oh well hes family now ya know.. but i am very happy.. just sad.. and i cant ask.. thats just not me.. ill get over it im just sad for now.  :)

musicangl Aug. 12, 2008 at 9:22 PM

It is always difficult not to be asked when they were asked to be in your wedding.  One of my bridesmaids ended up so jealous of me being married and having children, she will have nothing to do with me at all.  So be happy that you are invited and your daughter is a part of it.  Who knows what the reason is, but sometimes friends just begin to grow apart.  Weddings are things of the moment, good friendships will last the test of time.  I have a friend that was not allowed to invite me to his wedding because his fiance was too jealous of me.  I should have been his 'best wo-'man'!  We have been best friends since we were 12 years old!  His mom called me up and said she expected the wedding to have been him and me!  Um, yuck!  Today, 20 years later, he and his wife and my husband and I are the closest of friends.  We go on vacations together and spend many times just laughing and having fun.  So who knows? I was upset too, but maybe your story will end up the same as mine?

dellis1066 Aug. 12, 2008 at 9:28 PM

yea...i hope so. :) i am very happy and i knew id be invited and im very happy that analiese will be one of the flower girls.. it just hurts ya know.. its not even about the favt that she was in mine for me as it is that i was her first friend that she kept since moving to this state.. so its just hard.. but i am happy and i know things will be fine. :) thanks for talking to me. :) she told me that she isnt gonna ask makenzie to be in the wedding because she will be too little. lol i agree.. analiese will be 2 and a half and makenzie will be 1 and a half.. who knows how well analiese will do but i know makenzie wont. haha

musicangl Aug. 13, 2008 at 8:47 AM