i'm in a real jam! friday i went to court and my soon to be 3 yr old cannot be around my fiance any more. we got in a domestic and it was pretty bad but it was on both of our parts so now i have 2 other kids besides her and one on the way.  i have one week to find a place to live and no money! any suggestions on were to get help?




k sorry now i can finish this...

i am seeking counseling along with my fiance.  we are both going thru anger management and he will be going thru domestic abuse classes.  which i might be doing also. i didn't get charged with anything even though i started it. he can be around my son but he cant be around my oldest daughter. we have one child together and one on the way. we are trying. my mother is the one that started all of this i have a 4 year restraining order on her. so everyother week he cannot be around me because that is when i have my oldest daughter. problem is i live at my fiances mothers house. i've tried everything and now its a waiting game. i just don't know how to speed things up.

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Aug. 17, 2008 at 2:27 PM

check with the state and if you have a st vincent de paul in your community more often then not they have a food bank that can help out with food as well as some bills

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Aug. 17, 2008 at 2:30 PM

i already have assistance from the county and state but it isn't enough because they only help so much. i'm on a waiting list for a house but who knows how long that will take.

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Aug. 17, 2008 at 2:31 PM

Probably your best bet is to contact the battered women's shelter in your area. They will have the resources to help you, whether it's finding a place to stay or pointing you in the right direction for other needs. Good luck and stay strong.

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Aug. 17, 2008 at 2:35 PM


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Aug. 17, 2008 at 2:58 PM

Where do you live in Wi? I live in Walworth county...I know from experience that it sucks here to try to get help! I could do some research for you.

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