Still hoping but yet concern......

[mysa]

           Well, I just need to canalize my feelings and why not also my frustrations!!!
It has been couple of weeks since wrote my first journal, full of hope and great wishes.....
Still nothing has happened and that concern me because I am not getting any younger; any way I look or plan I imagine is always full of obstacles....especially $$$$$$ ....ggeezzzzzz
Even though I do have a good job (I am a teacher) but I am not rich....farrrrrrrrrrr from that....lol
The only thoughts making waves in my mind are related to my need and desire of becoming a mother.
I hope still to be blessed by being able to hold a baby in my arms that I can call my own.
Sudden question.....what does it feels to receive a modest single flower on mother's day?
I wish I can find out someday.....

Thanks for reading....

[JayGirlsMom]

Aug. 21, 2008 at 9:02 AM

HONEY, YOU WILL GET THERE! YOUR (AND I SAY YOUR) BABY JUST ISN'T READY YET. HAVE THE PATIENCE AND FAITH~AND REALLY GO AFTER THIS WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND IT WILL HAPPEN FOR YOU! I AM SURE YOU'LL BE A MOTHER SOON. BUT IT WON'T BE ON YOUR TIME...IT WILL BE ON THAT BABY'S TIMELINE. DON'T SWEAT IT.....TIME WILL COME! I KNOW FROM EXPERIENCE!

[tiggermom999]

Sep. 28, 2008 at 2:57 AM

God works in mysterious ways... we are starting adoption classes with the county and the fees are minimal... almost free

[Lil-Jo]

Oct. 29, 2008 at 12:27 AM

Things take time, some people will say they were matched in months, some in years...  I know a couple of families that waited over the 3 year mark and are now matched and they agree, it is completely worth the wait.  They wanted to give up so many times during their wait and now they are so happy they didn't.  Have faith, the time and money will all fall into place with the right situation comes along.

As for age, I am 41 with a 2 year old... and hoping to adopt again (but an older child).