I am SOOOO Done with AMY FURR!!! Come after my kids again BITCH!
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Where do I begin.. because right now there is no END! Bear with me as this will be long ~ but the TRUTH needs to be written & out there so that all of you know! I have been to Fauquier County Police, newspapers and the school to make everyone aware of the daily abuse we live with. Look her up on Myspace... she is here. Her name is AMY FURR and she lives right here next to me in Bealeton VA! Look at her picture and tell me if that is not the perfect picture of something evil! www.myspace.com/noahsmom0101
.. me first say that She has a husband & son who is 7 this year! We have talked to them at times mostly about health since she "claims" to have Fybroidmyalgia.
Then one day she began calling the kids names as she drove by in her Blue Dodge Van playing in the cul-de-sac. I had confronted her a about it about face to face ~ but of course Satan denied calling the children any names. It was not just my kids saying it and I talked to the neighbor and her children as well as other kids who all said the same thing! One day as Christian was hammering nails back into the fence she told him "I hope you fall and break your neck."
Then I noticed she would yell at my dogs as she walked by the fence ~ saying things like "I am going to feed you rat poison". She began driving the wrong way in the Cul-de-sac so she could pull up to her mailbox & she would hit my kids toys with her van. She also began to create a rut on our property that would hold water. So ~ I called V.DOT to come fix the rut & in the meantime placed large rocks in place to deter her from driving on our property.
BUT... she would get out of her van & pick up the rocks & throw them back in our yard yelling & cursing at us. I became pregnant with Taylor & her behavior became even more wild! I had Child Protective Services at my home inquiring into child abuse to Taylor. According to them "a complaint came in that I would leave Taylor alone in the house for up to 3 hours every morning and 2 hour every evening while I chatted with others at the bus stop." and that I would cut my grass & while cutting the grass would allow the boys to put Taylor in a walker (at 6 months young) tie a dog leash to the walker and fling her around the cul-de-sac so fast that she came flyer out of her walker and hit the street and I did nothing but continue to cut grass." It did not take long for CPS to talk to neighbors & the school & others to find out this was Bull-shit!
The same day this occured ~ I had been to the principal of the school because the neighborhood kids said Amy Furr was tailgating the school bus and giving the kids the finger. Even the bus driver confirmed. Want to know what the school did ~ They gave her 3 warnings to stay back from the bus.
The shit hit the fan the day Christian, Bryce & Austin were playing outside in the back yard on the fence. She pulled up in her driveway & the kids were trying to talk to her son Noah. I had already known of her behavior so I decided to stand on my back deck & see what she does when a parent is not around.
First... She yelled at the dogs & told them she was going to rat poison them which really upset Austin and he told her "oh no you wont because I will get you!" then she looked at the boys and began yelling at them " you stupid kids get off my fence". Which is not her fence.. since my husband and I built it 4 years prior to this! Christian said "We were just trying to see if your son wanted to play with us" and she said "Noah.. get inside they are not Christians". Whateva.. then she turns around and yells at them again "you stupid kids" was all she got out of her mouth before I came around the corner of my deck and told her if she talked to my children again I would file harrassment charges on her...
She of course started walking away like the coward she is and then before she slammed the door to her house she decided to call me a "Fat Ass White Trash Whore" NICE!!! in fron of my kids and her son. She then proceeded to call the police and tell the boys were yelling names at her on the fence and my dogs were ready to attack her. LMBO!! Through a 6 foot wood provacy fence.
I proceeded to tell the officer everything going on and he just looked at me with sympathy & told me to go to the magistrate and file no tresspassing papers and perhaps she would calm down. So.... I did what he advised & that seemed to fuel her fire. It was a weekly occurance that the police were at my home accusing me of so many different things.. it was insain! My husband even tried to talk to the husband one day as she stood on her deck with video camera in hand and yelled at the two of them talking "your wife is phycotic & needs to be in a institution." The husband (Sean) claims that I am the one calling her names and creating problems for them and proceed to tell Chase that his father is in Richmond prison for committing murder and is due for release in Jan 08 ~ so they just want to keep to themselves and not create any problems. So ~ Chase asks that he ask his wife to keep the kids out of it. That if she has a problem with me.. fine ~ but stop treating the kids the way she does. Then as she is yelling at him.. he asks her why she calls me names.. and she of course denies it saying "I am a school teacher and would never fucking do that"... ARE YOU SERIOUS!!!!!
OK.. there is wayyyy more.. and above is just a summary of her crap!!
Then one day I was standing outside with my neighbor near my house waiting for the boys to come home from school. They boys got off the bus and began walking down the street with one of their older friends when she came barrelling around the corner in her van. It was like a horror story... my neighbor and I watched as she refused to slow down and then the older boy had to push my children over in the grass because she came inches from hitting them with her van! This time.. I called the police and they told me there was nothing they could do until someone is physically hurt! ARE YOU SERIOUS!!! They advised that we go file reckless driving charges on her.. and so my neighbor and I went back to the magestrate and did. Explained the whole drama to him! Exactly one month later.... to the date... Austin was having his first sleep over and 5th b.day party. The kids were all playing outside on the court when Amy came barrelling down the court and plowed through the children. Thank GOD that all of the kids were able to get out of the road and not get hurt. She then proceeded to get out of her van and got in one of the boys faces and began yelling at him.. WELL.. parents were flying out of homes to confront her.. she jumped in her van and ran in her house! The police came.. because another neighbor called them & heard the whole sagga from us.. He then went into her home & got their story & proceeds to come out & tell us he is not sure if they will file charges or not since no one is hurt.. WTF~ sooooo.. we go back to the magistrate...
So.. these kids now have to go to court because they are the victims.. and reckless driving is all we can get her on! The case goes to court and long story short.. they found her guilty on both counts of reckless driving. The kids were GREAT in court & it really showed how much of a liar this woman really is.. SATAN!! She tells the judge when he asks if she has anything to say... "Your honor, I am a Christian, a school teacher, mother & wife, I would never do these things that Mrs. Parker accuses me of. She is the one who yells at me all the time, her kids break my sons toys and my child can not ride the bus to school for fear of getting harrased by her children." RIGHT!!!!
So.. The only thing that happens to her is 1 year probation & a fine that is waved if she behaves for the year. Nothing to her driving record since it is Juvenile court & not traffic court! She was also ordered to have no contact with any of the children in the case.
HA.. The law is not that easy people!!! She continued to bully the kids. She would sit in front of the school early waiting topick up her kids and tape my kids at recess. She would walk around my house with a video camera taping me & the kids as they came home from school. But according to her probation officer.. it was not Direct Contact! I called her probation officer 23 times in the year letting her know when she was speeding through the neighborhood or calling me and the children names again.. All I ever got was "We will talk to her and warn her."
March her probation was up and now she owns a Black Jepp Liberty and guess what.. SHE IS AT IT AGAIN.. She told the kids in the library when they said hello to her "to shut the hell up". The past couple days she has been calling me names in front of Taylor.. Like Whore. Cunt Bitch... and now.. everytime she drives by the kids on the court.. and they all wave to her.. she flicks them off. I am just about done with this!
So.. Now I am calling on all of you.. my friends and buddies to help me figure out what I need to do to stop this AntiChrist ~ Amy Furr
I wanted to update everyone so that things were more clear. We have video taped her before (this was part of our documentation in court) Becuase she all of a sudden was in such poor health that she needed a walker to walk to court!!! So.. we had a neighbor with a clear shot of the court & her house tape her hitting thi kids toys & also having no problem carrying groceries in her house with several bags on each arm. She is on disability!!! I think this was another reason why the court found her guilty!
My neighbors can back me up about her crazy & errotic behavior & we HAVE reported at many times to the police.!! I have around 100 character letter on myself & husband as well as the kids.
I have begged Charlie Ray Fox (Head of Fauquier County Police) through email, phone and letters to have routine police patrols to the area ~ It happened 1 time and stopped!!
We have begged CPS to protect our children through phone and email.
I have had meetings with the Superintendent of Fauquier County Schools as well as the Principal of Grace Miller about this! I have also gone to the head of transporation for the county when she was tailgaiting the school bus. My children & myself have used the school counselor to work through this abuse and try to come up with days to cope with it.
I want everyone to know that we have tired so many different things and I am at a loss and why I come to all of you for help & advice.
Maybe you should give her a dose of her own medicine..... Everytime you are outside have a video recorder handy. Catch her on video doing all of these things. She has no problems video taping you or your kids start video taping her. Apparently nothing can be done to you by doing this since nothing was done to her. So if it were me I would have the video recorder out everytime I was outside. I would start out video taping my children at play or whatever then if she comes up while doing so catch her on tape. I would tape her driving wreckless and cussing at my children and whatever else she did. She might either stop or she will continue. If she's dumb enough to continue then take what you have recorder back to the police station and see if they can do anything then. Since you have proof of it all. If anything is ever said I would say well i was video taping my children and I heard a commotion and I panned the camera around to see what was going on but this is what we deal with everyday.
Or have security cameras installed around your home so it isn't as obivious. Have one pointed towards the road one pointed towards the her home or driveway , pointed towards where ever she usually is when she starts yelling.
You never had any real proof it's always been a she said she said kind of thing. Maybe you need to get some proof.
i don't know I am just going out on a limb here trying to help. But if I had a neighbor who was always causing trouble and video taping me and my family I think I would reverse the roles and start taping her....lol.
Not only to give her a dose of her own medicine but also to maybe get proof of all that she is doing. If I was video taping and she started with the names and cursing me I wouldn't say a word just continue to tape. If she were cursing my kids I would definitely get that on tape but wouldn't let her see me doing so. Then of course I would step out and defend them. It's just food for thought. I think she is always taping you guys so she can have proof to turn you in. HOPING you'll do something so she can because you guys have turned her in for things but she has never gotten anything so reverse the rolls.
She'll either stop doing it because she doesn't want to be on tape or she'll get worse and you can catch her.
I'm sorry you are going through this and I hope things get better. Other than what I have said though I don't really have any advice sorry.
Oh and I would make sure I had at least three or four tapes of her doing something with the dates on it before I took it to the police so you can say this is something that happens all the time. But remember to tape your children playing or whatever so you don't look like you are after blood even though you are....lol
If you can get security cameras then it wouldn't matter because that is to protect your home and not to purposely record her (at least in the eyes of the law) and she would just be caught on tape being stupid... but if you are like me you can't afford that crap....lol. If you aren't like me and can afford I would go for it. Anyway goodluck hon hope all gets better.
Karma is a bitch and I hope this gets better for you and your family. Unfortunantly there has to be not so good people so those who are know the differance.
I definitely wouldn't do anything in retaliation. But, I would document everything and as a PP above said...take videos of her behavior. Shouldn't someone notify the School Board of her illegal behavior and court appearances? Do you have a Homeowner's Association you could complain to? Are there other parents willing to back up what you have seen...more than one neighbor...if complaints were filed by several maybe that would help? Could you ask the Police Department to have rountine patrols in your area to possibily "catch" her erractic behavior while driving (or video tape it)? Good Luck...sounds like a real problem. A scary one.
Holy cow! Good luck. I hope the police realize how serious this is BEFORE someone gets seriously hurt!
This is ridiculous!! You should not have to deal with something like this ever and then to be told that there is nothing the police can do is just not right.
Purposely driving into a crowd whether it be children or adults is against the law!! I think those officers need a refresher course on classifying crimes. Waiting till someone gets hurt is ridiculous! They should be charging her with Assault with a Deadly Weapon-Car or Assault with the intent to Kill. Plus she's threatening to kill your dog with rat poison. A threat is a threat. They could arrest her on that. They probably wouldn't because she was threatning a dog though.. depending on what she says to you or your children she might be able to be arrested for threats. I think you need to have a sit down with someone high up in the police department and explain that "you are scared for your familys saftey." (hint- depending on what you say to the police makes a HUGE difference on what the outcome will be!!) Stating that your scared makes it a much more serious incident. EVERYTIME she drives at your children or does anything threatning CALL THE POLICE... ask to be interviewed and leave a call back number. When the officer gets there explain what happened and ask for a report if they don't do anything else. If they refuse don't fret... just the fact that you called the police will make its own paper trail. Alot of times before meetings with citizens police officals will call dispatch and see just how many "calls of service" was called from a certain location. It makes an impact on just how serious the police take you. Also if your neighbors want to get involved... have them call also.
As far as video taping... For the most part it is leagle. But just the fact that shes taping your family excessivly can be seen as either harrassment or stalking which IS against the law. She can also be charged with that. I would bring out my video camera when I see her taping my kids and tell her ON TAPE that I would like for her to stop taping your family. That you find it creepy and scary and you want her to stop. Then I would document EVERY time you saw her taping your family. Document dates, times, and what was said...maybe I would just get a shot of her taping your family as well. I would also document everytime she makes contact with you or your children. It just makes for a much stronger case. You could also call the police and tell them your preverted neighbor is taping your children. Would be interesting to see what they do with that one!! lol..
Byond all that I would cut ALL contact with her and her family. Tell your children to act like she doesn't even exsist. It could be that she enjoys all the attention shes getting from messing with you. I get the feeling that shes looking at this like a game and she thinks shes smarter than everyone because shes getting away with all this crap. Just take the high road and let her act the fool. Just catch her on tape doing it!!
Good luck and please let us know what happens!! I hope that I helped you out some. If the police still won't do anything let me know... I've got some other ideas of things you can do...
You can also call the Humane Society and put in a complaint about her threating to feed your dog rat poision.... If she also damaged your kids toys you could have her arrested for destruction of property or sue her to get the value of the toys. I think I would also notify whoever shes getting disability from about your tape and see if they can get her on fraud..
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Awww Sweetie I am so so sorry for what this woman is doing to you and your children and all the other children in your cul-de-sac, my heart goes out to you and I will keep you in my thoguhts and prayers. One day when she least expects it she will get whats coming to her 3 times the fold. That I am sure of. I wish I could tell you what to do but Since the police wont do anything and everyone around you wont either I am nto sure what to say or tell you to do. All I can say is keep your chin up and dont let your children around that evil woman. Hugs Mama~ Stay Positive.
SweetCherry79 Aug. 21, 2008 at 12:34 PM