What are you Vibrating?

[Luckybug66]

Have you ever wondered, "If I'm a focused deliberate creator, how is it that I'm attracting bad things into my life?"

Okay, maybe not in those words, but maybe something like..."Why am I having so much bad luck?"

I'm just going to go into this briefly here since I'm writing more in depth for another project...

I've noticed that when my life hits lows, I seem to attract bad things into my life. 

After two funerals, one year after the next, I seemed to have a run of "bad luck" directly afterwards.   However, I believe that it wasn't luck but my thoughts that brought these things on.

These people I loved - died. My thoughts turned to depression, anger, disillusionment, negativity.

A positive person by nature, I gave myself permission to throw all of my happiness out the window for a short while to grieve and in doing so, I attracted unwanted circumstances.

After the first funeral - one year ago - there was an event that happened with someone I knew. I merely walked up on this person doing something which directly affected me.

I did nothing and said nothing about what happened. I was willing to forgive and let it go.

This person felt bad about it, I could tell, but it took several months before an apology came. I appreciated the apology, but now I wonder why this happened after my dad's death?

This year, a similar event happened with a different "friend" directly one day after the funeral of my dad-in-law when my emotions were scattered and my vibes were low.

Then over the weekend, we went to get into our car and the gas tank was empty. Our gas had been siphoned out over night.

I began to analyze why this would all happen at a time when I was grieving... and I think I've figured it out.

During these emotionally trying events that I have no control over - death - my vibes are low. I'm sending out negative thought patterns, so I'm attracting negativity into my life.

While it's important to let myself grieve, I also realize that I need to get back to the positive outlook on life that is my nature, so I need to shift my focus FULLY back to "the bright side."

So my point is this: If you are attracting bad things into your life, look at where your thoughts are sitting.

Better yet, if you don't know what you are vibrating, look at what you are "attracting."

p/s I know not everyone agrees with my beliefs on this concept. It's just the way I see things...

 

 

[mimitothree]

Aug. 25, 2008 at 2:35 PM

I've never  really thought about that. I'll have to get back to you on that one. 

[SuddenGifts]

Aug. 25, 2008 at 3:02 PM

This was really interesting.  As for myself, I can't say that my thoughts are "fully" back to the bright side either...but some positive things have been happening in my life lately after a s**tload of negatives!  I think that the positive vibes from people like you and others are affecting my life.  So, I'm sending some of those positive vibes back at ya!

[snowflake9903]

Aug. 25, 2008 at 5:24 PM

Did you read the Secret?  Great post!  I especially liked this part:

While it's important to let myself grieve, I also realize that I need to get back to the positive outlook on life that is my nature, so I need to shift my focus FULLY back to "the bright side."

This really resonated with me and some issues that I am dealing with right now, so thank you!

[army__mom]

Aug. 26, 2008 at 8:30 AM

i just love reading your posts they are so full of positivity!