first day of school and the system is trying to 'jerk us around' again

  • August 25, 2008 at 4:51 PM by mamablaze216
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...i'm going to keep yhis one sweet and short because i'm feeling a lil stressed and need to rest.

as yall already know, i have been having major issues with the school system that my daughyer is currently attending and i have been having this MAJOR ISSUES for a looooooooooong time...well they TRIED  to jerk us again this year...

the principal put my daughter classses of the the same two 'instructors' who harassed my daughter to the point to where she ended up having a near-nervous breakdown for english 1 and alagebra 1 this year.  now the principal..who was one of the former instructors at the now defunct c. g. white middle school CLAIMED the reason he did this was because he FELT these teachets( "instructors") would have my daughter's best interest at heart and plus they know a lil something about my daughter...

suuuuuure he did.

i made it known to him that he thought wrong and that it was because of these women, (and i use that term very loosely) was the reasomn that my babygirl completely lost and ended up being snatched from me and placed into a form of hell on earth for nine days ( i read the transcript from the doctor when i brought her home...) and tried to forced me to make my child in to a govermental junkie.,.which was something i wasn't going to do.  that these women, especially one andrea roulhac, didn't have my daughter well-being at heart then and she won't have it now and she is to be removed from her class IMMDEIATELY.

(She the one who almost got her head busted to the white meat for calling me an unfit mother in 06...but my mother saved her life.....the smae one who made the statement' i have 80 kids i teacher daily so i don't have time to babysit just one.')

oh trust me, i didn't get postal nor did i do anything violent but i made my grievence known ..especially since my daughter called me and said mommy..come get me they gave me them this year..

now keep in mind when i went out to pick schedule, supply list, find out whatbus she rides..etc..etc..they CLAIMED they didn't have her schedule made up but will have one made for her by today...

do i think that they tried to do this on purose and THOUGHT i was going to accept it as if they were going to blow smoke up my butt?????

YUP. BUT IT DIDN'T JUMP OUT THAT WAY.

i made it nown to the principal that he is to take my child out of those classes and find other teachers/instructors to teach my daughter these subjects.  at first he was going to TRY to buck and throw his weight around..HE GOT SHUT DOWN.

i made it known to him that it was a request BUT if my request was not honored i would go over his head , even if means to the capital with my attorney in tow because  don't have the emotional fortitude to allow my daughter to be harrassed by any human being this year that is SUPPOSE to be teaching my child so she can make it to the next level.

i stood there and watched them change her schedule BEFORE i left.  i also made it very much aware to them that should i have to come to the school for any problems, will be bring witnessess, the conversations will be recorded and if i feel it deem necessary, i will bring a police officer with me because i'm not having any nonsense from any of them..including my daughter too..at all.

fighting (breast cancer) and going through this breast reconstruction is stressful enoughb..i can't go get a job because i can't lift anything over 5 lbs and right now..having a part-time jonb would hel my family out ALOT..my new and improved is slowly 'waking up' and it hurts...the original got lifted slightly so she hurts too and i have so much excess weight...(30 lbs)..that i'm sluggish and tired but i can't exercise like i want to because of the weight lifting issue an the medicine i'm on for my thyroids and my high blood pressure now forbids me from being in direct sunlight and i haven't gotten the money to pay for my membershipr to v-quest yet because other bills (lights. water, food) is smore important...

do these people really want to mess with me????

I DON'T THINK SO.

and i scared the heck out the social worker and his assistant..didn't mean to but i had to make my point known and understood.  i took my caregiver with me as a witness so that way if anything had of jumped off..i would have back-up.

right now, i'm waiting for miss lady to get home so i can hear her complain about me not taking hber away when i came to the school.  as i told her, you don't let NOBODY punk you out from what iis rightly urs and her education is rightly hers.  besides she wasn't going to learn anything by running and hiding underneath me..and then too she has to come to understand, okay you can't always go where you want to go or do what yu want to do simply because you WANT it.  there will be times , in the real world, you willhave to ut up with things you might like so you can make a living for yourself.  but you don't run from anything that stands on two legs and pisses in between two shoes because they are no better than you are..they are just older and have what you need..so you get yours and keep it moving...

don't worry about the lil trollops that talk about you and say negative stuff about you..you are there to get y our education, not for some fashion plate or someone else amusement. my last words to her were

'FAILURE IS NOT AN OPTION.'

and by me showing her by going through the proper channels and getting stuff done, hopefully she will come to understand this is how you beat them at their own game with their own rules and regs...not go their rules and make it harder on us...

i scared the principal a lil bit too because he was sitting down and he was backed into a corner..why..because i was slowly backing him into it and if he had of came out at me wrong..that would have been his job AND his 'asset'..(hands have been bonded for years folks..brown belt in karate abd knw where the pressure points to hit in order to kill a man..{had a former marine as a 'playmate' when i was single who taught me these things}..so there wouldn't have been no way out for him except to honor my request.

i'm just waiting to hear from the head superitendent..(i called him as i was in motion on my way to the school just in case the principal didn't honor my request..he was my next stop)

ii love it when we 'mamas' win the the battles AND  wars

Tags: winning one for the lil guy

Comments:

Macav...

Oh you have a problem, I can imagine were this is going too, teachers, child, parents, big confusion, parents are not in the classrooms, so who knows who is telling the truth. Parents can stir up a lot of things, and make matters worse, I'm sure this whole problem could have been solved a long time ago.  Bully parents, and probably a little spoil daughter who thinks she's grown. Home school.

Macavelly Aug. 25, 2008 at 5:52 PM

betty...

I wish you luck and pray things wrk out to your advantage.

bettyboopfla63 Aug. 25, 2008 at 7:06 PM

mamab...
Macav...

Oh you have a problem, I can imagine were this is going too, teachers, child, parents, big confusion, parents are not in the classrooms, so who knows who is telling the truth. Parents can stir up a lot of things, and make matters worse, I'm sure this whole problem could have been solved a long time ago.  Bully parents, and probably a little spoil daughter who thinks she's grown. Home school.

Macavelly Aug. 25, 2008 at 5:52 PM

(TAKING DEEP CLEANING BREATH)

yes, parents CAN  stir up a whole lot of unnecessary problems for instructors but a parent can never cause any roblems for a TRUE TEACHER because a TEAHCER is going to assest the situation with dignity, grace and common sense. "Instrucotrs" are only there to instruct..whihc in lay's man terms mean simply the informaton in front of the children and that's it and if you get it, you get it, if you don't, you just don't but i don't care because i'm going to get paid REGARDLESS.

and incidently..since you mentioned 'HOME SCHOOL'...the dept. of social services here in MY county STRONGLY enforced that i did not home school my child..to the point to where they threatened ME with child neglect..their reasoning...by 'home schooling' your child , you are denying her 'vital interaction' with other children and with society..

and let's talk about today's society for a few ticks..

we've got gangbangers who carry knives, boxcutters and dillengers to school to fight their rival gangs , teens under the age of 15 who have 2 kids and working on having their third..'instructors' who are quick to take whatever anger or frustratin out on your child simply becvause they don't like you as a person..in otherworlds ..abusing the power that they hold as an instructor...

instrucotrs don't cae about whetever or not if the child is sliping in her/his class. they are in too much of a rush worrying about their bonus if they make the EOG/EOC quota..whetever or not johnny, jane, maleik or laquicha can speak a simple declaritive sentence or know the eight parts of speech doesn't really matter to THEM.

but it does to a teacher.

and a teacher is quick to contact the parents to let them know that their children are acting up, acting out or not doing at all....ESPECIALLY if that parent gives them 7 TELEPHONE NUMBERS as contact number if ANYTHING should go wrong.  if need be, a teacher will come to your house and talk t you in front of the child on your own turf with the child in the room so the 'spoilt child'..as you so nicely put it, can't lie their way out of it.

a teacher can be trusted with the lives of the most precious things we all, as parents have, the lives of our children because A TEACHER IS THE SECOND LINE OF DEFENSE AGAINST ANY AND ALL CLEAR AND PRESENT DANGER THAT MAY BE PRESENTED TO THAT CHILD...BECAUSE A TEACHER LOVES CHILDREN AND LOVES TO MAKE SURE THAT THE CHILDREN SHE TEACHES EXCEL AND ISN'T AFRAID TO GET A LIL DIRTY AND ROLL UP THOSE SLEEVES AND HANDLE IT HOWEVER IT MUST BE HANDLED SO AS LONG AS THE PARENTS ARE IN FULL AND COMPLETE AGREEMENT.

instructors don't give a rat's asset about the youth of today and will let you know it.

and furthermore i did what needed to be done to protect my daughter's life..(her emotional life and her mental llife) because of those two trollops and how they..(especially the english instructor <she was the reading instructor at the middle school that my daughter attended>) HARASSED MY DAUGHTER UNTIL SHE NEARLY HAD A NERVOUS BREAKDOWN...

why???

all because her hubby said something nice about me...

and here's the kicker...

i'm related to the man.

now...

considering ALL that you have been made aware of..and if you don't know..please feel free to backtrack on alot of my journal concerning the school system...do you think your comment to ME was fair or justified?

if you don't..cool

if you do..still cool...

i'm going to protect what is MINE BAMN

(by any means necessary)

thank you and be blessed

mamablaze216 Aug. 26, 2008 at 3:47 PM

grand...

you rockYOU WHAT I CALL A STRONG BLACK WOMAN,A BLACK WOMAN WHO STAND UP FOR WHAT IS RIGHT,AND DON"T LET ANYONE PUSH YOU DOWN,YOU ARE A BLACK WOMAN THAT NEED TO LEAD OTHER BLACK WOMAN TO STAND UP FOR THEIRSELVES A-MEN.BLACK WOMAN WHO DON'T TAKE NO FOR  ANSWER.YOU ARE A BLACK WOMAN WHO HAVE COURAGE AND STRENGTH THAT CAN KEEP GOING ON AN ON..AN ON AN ON....A-MEN.....THE STRENGTH THAT YOU HAVE CAN MOVE A MOUNTIAN.THE COURAGE YOU HAVE CAN GIVE OTHER BLACK WOMAN HOPE.A HOPE THAT MAKE THEM CARRY ON.AND DON'T GIVE UP....YOU ARE A STRONG BLACK WOMAN WHO HAVE A TESTIMONIAL THAT SHOW PEOPLE WHAT CAN GOD DO.AND GOD IS YOUR HEALING.SEE GOD HAVE A PLAN FOR YOU MY FRIEND.I CAN SEE , IN THE NAME OF JESUS YOU GOING OUT TO DIFFERENCE PLACES AND BE A  TESTIMONY FOR OTHER SURVIVOR A-MEN.....WITH THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE.angel mini

grandmom155 Nov. 2, 2008 at 8:11 AM

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