thats like saying is the sky blue....

[millertilldeath]

of course people can change...they have to have the drive to do so though...i don't believe you can change someone...even though i have tried many times as i'm sure a lot of people have...my husband has changed a lot since we've been together...most of it for the better....i just have to really focus and praise the good changes and not nag about the things that i wish were changed....