well for most of you that know me you know that my husband and i have been having trouble with our marriage. but on this last monday i finally kicked him out because of another women he had been text messaging alot of things he shouldnt have been. like he loved her and hi sexy and all kinds of thing married men should not be writting another women other than there wife. so im having alot of trouble keeping my emotions in check. this is not what i wanted this is not the way its supposed to be. i hate that all of this happened especially because of our kids we have a 2 yr old daughter and boy/girl twins that are 7months old. they are the ones paying now becasue im so upset and angry. its not fair to them at all. how could he have done this to us. i just dont understand. i dont think i ever will.