well for most of you that know me you know that my husband and i have been having trouble with our marriage. but on this last monday i finally kicked him out because of another women he had been text messaging alot of things he shouldnt have been. like he loved her and hi sexy and all kinds of thing married men should not be writting another women other than there wife. so im having alot of trouble keeping my emotions in check. this is not what i wanted this is not the way its supposed to be. i hate that all of this happened especially because of our kids we have a 2 yr old daughter and boy/girl twins that are 7months old. they are the ones paying now becasue im so upset and angry. its not fair to them at all. how could he have done this to us. i just dont understand. i dont think i ever will.

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Aug. 28, 2008 at 5:44 PM

im sorry You know I am here for you whenever you need me. Call me anytime day or night.

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Aug. 28, 2008 at 7:29 PM

I am so sorry. My husband had affairs with 6 women. You need to get help for yourself so you can keep your emotions in check. It is ok to feel the way you do. Protect those babies of yours. I will be praying.


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Apr. 22, 2009 at 4:56 PM

HI there-you and I are in the Mommies without Moms group.

First of all, good for you for kicking your husband out. Cheating has no place in a marriage. Vows are taken for a reason. I know this was written a while ago so I dont know where you are right now.

I do hope that things are better for you and that you have been or have gotten some counseling and can work out your feelings and issues.

Good Luck.

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