Hubby vent!

[brneyedgrl_78]

Okay, so last night was basically a GNO (girls night out) disguised with the premise of a planning meeting.  I left at 8 and returned home at 11.  For some strange reason my lovely children were climbing all over me at 6 this mmorning.  My oldest- Michael knows not to wake me up before the alarm goes off so he went to lay with is Dad ( we don't sleep together- he works nights shift and sleeps on the sofa).  At 630 I get up because again my dd is climbing all over me and I was hoping my DARLING husband would put Mike on the bus and let me sleep til 830.  ALL I said was "Babe, do you think I could sleep until 830 this morning (he's usually pretty good about this stuff)?  But for some reason he freaked out! Whining about needing to work tonight and how he stayed up all night, blah, blah, blah! We're talking 2 hours here not like all day or something. So I went and laid back down because I still had 30 minutes before I had to be up.  I managed to stay in there for 15 minutes before I realized it was pointless to lay there. 

So I get up and walk into the kitchen and in this really nasty tone he tells me to go back to bed because if I don't then HE won't be able to sleep b/c I'm mad.  He keeps on saying he doesn't know what he was thinking b/c how dare he say no to me... no one ever says no to me!  When he was done I simply said forget it I can't go back to sleep, I'm up now. He was just nasty after that telling me that I made him anxious and he'll never be able to sleep.  Oh and if I don't get to go back to sleep then I'm going to be mean to him all day!  Okay now in my defense I will say that he created this monster (me) by giving me everything before I asked for it, but sleeping til 830 was not such a big deal when I asked if he would do it.  If he had said Hon, I am waaayyy tired I would have been like OK no problem.  But he was off yesterday (and Wednesday night), and instead of spending time with us he slept until 145 when I begged him to get up so I could go to a dr.'s appt.

I really don't feel like I asked for too much, but he just blew this way out of proportion! And yes now I AM mad! Well irritated really!

[HuntersMommy117]

Aug. 29, 2008 at 8:27 AM

Im Sorry, that sucks.

[HeathersBabies]

Aug. 29, 2008 at 8:34 AM

I swear...men have mood swings worse than we do, sometimes! LOL!! Hopefully, he has gotten the point now, for future reference!

[ryleemom]

Aug. 29, 2008 at 9:22 AM

Men can be inconsiderate! I am sorry that he was sooo cranky! I totally see your points! Why can't they realize these simple things?