i hate drama!!(venting=long)

[momma117]

OK so a little background before i begin..when i was 17 i ran away from home and had nowhere to go(i was dumb) well, this woman "dee" took me in and i lived there with her,her husband,and 3 daughters, for 4 years.i paid room and board and helped out with the chores.i had my son in that time as well. i moved out got my own apartment when i was 22 and my son was 3. We remained friends but "dee" was so angry with me for moving out that we faught ALOT,she was always putting me down and saying  i wasnt a good mother because i dated alot,etc. Any ways 2 years ago i met my bf who happend to be "dee's" boss.Well we hit it off and fell for each other rather quickly, he moved in with me 4 months later..He and I were(and are) very happy together,and "dee" would get jealous and say i was spending too much time with him and not enough with my friends. So needless to say our friendship was ending.

Now 2 years and a whole lot of drama later..My bf quit his job where "dee" and her husband work and took a different job, which is an hour away. (now "Dee" and I are no longer friends because of the fact that she wen nuts and started harassing my bf and i and called me a lot of nasty names and went behind my back and told my bf he should leave me cause i was crazy!!) So "Dee's" husband took my bf's job when he left. About a month ago hmy bf's old job calls and says they are firing "dee's" husband and they would like him to come back,so my bf agreed its only 10 mintes away and they will pay him more money..

so somehow "dee" found out that this was going to happen and has been calling me for a week harassing me leaving me messages saying that were scum and all sorts of nasty things,i have kids in the house!! i spoke to her and told her they were going to fire her husband anyway but she doesnt care,she lost her house last month because she is a shopaholic and quit her job and her husband is a pot head,and now its my fault he lost his job??? Seriously this woman is insane!! How is this my fault? This woman is 37 years old, and she cant take responsibility for her own mistakes and problems?

[mackenziesmummy]

Sep. 4, 2008 at 6:12 PM

She sounds very immature for 37, change your number n ignore her she will get bored (Hopefully)

[LessMess]

Sep. 4, 2008 at 6:12 PM

Umm - just tell her to beat it and that you don't ever want to hear from her again and then - don't answer the phone when she calls. Ignore her and she will eventually go away for good. You can't fix what is broken here.

[mamakate1981]

Sep. 4, 2008 at 9:43 PM

That lady is so dumb! Do not worry about her and if she keeps calling and harassing you then call the police because that is harassment. Do not put up with it! And you are ten times more mature so please don't go to her level. Just what you need right?