The men in my life

[HavenLust]

I have been with two men that have changed my life for the better. the first (my ex-husband) was lazy, never worked, & really didn't care our kids. He stopped working near the end of our marriage & i wound up having to work doubles just to make ends meet. well, i gave him an ultamadum...either start working & help me out or leave! he chose to leave. so for a year we fought & the divorce (which i payed for) was final in dec. of '07. he remarried of course in may of '08. yet, this whole time he still has not helped to support his kids...he says since i'm working 3 jobs i can do it! i took is ass to CSE! he's about to loose his license & go to jail...good for him!! the second (my ex-boyfriend) can be summbed up into 2 words...user & abuser. he pretty much took all i had (money wise) cuz he knew i would help...then he decided to beat the shit out of me in april of '08....oh yeah...i left his sorry ass too. now he's a stalker!! so now...at least you know why & where i'm at in my life with the "men" issue.