step kids and inlaws

[angelairelan]

ok,my stepson went to his grandmas(inlaw)and told her i said some stuff about him(that i didnt) so she would buy him clothes and a bed in all,she calls hubby up and cuses him out about me,stepson comes home 2weeks later.ask for money from his dad and his dad says he had to clean his room and vacume the living room,hubby is at work when his son comes home(suposed to do these things)instead gets onthe enternet for like 2 hours i had to beg him to get off so i could watch tv(internet is hooked up to our tv) i asked him if his dad told him to clean his room(he say..yeah but im gonna go to my moms)  several hours later he is still home and hasnt did anything.and i went out of my way to get him  a moped for his birthday,he will be 16 in like a week,but stills cries to get his way.gets bad grades on top of it.what do i do? do i play his game and be a bitch to him like he has been to me.my cousin told me to be nice to him to keep the peace or ill just e misarable,but i have tried that.his dad(my huspand)hates to say anything cocky to his son to avoid conflick.but hubby is gonna have to change that real soon cuz im getting tierd of a cocky little boy running my house.