DESPERATE

[MaxsLovingMommy]

Ok, read this and then post your advice plz.

I had my son 2 1/2 years ago in Feb 2006. The doc asked if I wanted to get on birth control and I said yes bc I didn't want another baby right away. Well, I never would remember to take the pills and I got off them after less than a month. After I had my son(c-section), I bleed the 6 wks, but ever since then my period was weird. I would get it onw month and then not again for 2-3 months. I didn't think much of it and the next May I got pregnant again. (very happy) However, I started spotting one day during the pregnancy and went to the doctor, he did a sonogram and said everything was fine, baby's heartbeat was fine. I went home and the next day, it was a little worse. Went back to the doctor and he said same thing. Well, I was really scared and two days later, it got kind of heavier like a light period. It was Friday night so I went to the E.R. I lost my baby that night. I felt horrible and still feel horrible. I miss not knowing my baby. However, the point of this post is that I have been trying unsuccessfully to get pregnant. My periods are still weird. I want a baby desperately. Any advice?

[Davidsgirl03]

Sep. 21, 2008 at 9:41 AM

I know it's probably not what you want to hear, but give it time.  When your body is ready, you'll get pregnant again.  We lost our baby in May and at first I wanted to try again.  We're not ready right now, I think it was just the hormones talking.  (I have an 8yo,  2yo & a 16 mo)  However, the doc said if we wanted another baby that my body would allow for it when it was ready.  Good luck!  Oh, often the more you stress over trying to get pregnant, the harder it is.

[KyliesMama83]

Apr. 20, 2009 at 5:46 PM

Pretty much the EXACT same experience here...I lost twins two months ago, I haven't actually started trying again, hoping to soon...So I see this was quite a while ago now, any luck? Still trying? Thanks so much for the add :)

[lacylady]

Oct. 28, 2009 at 3:24 PM

Just reading journals of my friends today. I have lost a baby too. It would have been 39 years old on the 23 of this month. I did go on to have three babies they are all grown now. But every year I remember this baby I never held it. I call the abby it because I was fifteen and the hospital told us we had to sign these papers they had to keep the baby. They never told me the sex of the abby nohting at all. I think all kind sof things now that I should have done  but I didn't know then I had no ideal what to do. I had nobody but me and hubby. He was scarred i was going to die he was just to scarred and so was i. Now we both wonder about all the what IF's. But the day in heaven is coming and for you also to hold that baby in our arms......Huggs