Spoiled?!?!

[jrHowser]

So yesterday I took Devon to the hospital for an ECHO, because Dr. Bridge said she heard a small heart murmur... and Devon did not like getting his chest sonogrammed. He would stop crying when I held him. I was told that Devon was spoiled... and that I hold him too much. There is no such thing as spoiling a 4 week old premature baby. I don't think so at least. I want my son to be comforted. I don't want to him to cry alot. I feel... if I let him cry.... then he'll just start crying all the time and for no reason at all. I don't want that. I would rather my child not cry at all... unless he's trying to tell me something... like he's hungry or that he needs his diaper changed. My son is a good baby.

.... telling me that my son is spoiled....
     .......no he's just loved......

I will not ignore my baby's cries.

 

****on another note....

I'm really thinking about getting the 'mirena' birth control but I'm not sure about it. I don't want it affecting my intimate life. Poor Ryan... he's already gone long enough. And I want to wait until Devon starts headstart before bringing him a new sybling.