My mom

[Kate613]

Keeps asking me for money! Im pregnant plus we have custody of my SO's 2 daughters. My SO makes decent momey but not great money. He's lucky if he gets the $90 in child support he supposed to get each week. I normally work 30 hrs a week but because of the pregnancy and other medical problems i haven't been working much more like part time hours.I only make 8.20 an hour and i pay for my health insurance, eye and dental. My mom works part time at the library making decent money and part time at sears and gets 100 a week from dad for spousal support, it should be more once their divorce goes through because they were married 37 years and he is a retired cop so he gets a pention, he works full time and has a roomate who pays him 700 a month to live in my parents house. When i lived with my parents they screwed up their money so i couldnt pay for college and i didnt qualify as an independent student who needed help so i couldnt get financial aid. I got credit cards and paid my way through some schooling. Later my mom's job she was at for over 30 years closed and she got a lump some payment plus she retired and got money. She lent me some money maybe 2500 to pay off credit card bills. She wasn't wise about saving the rest of her money and now doesnt have anything in savings. So now she thinks i owe her ( i use to pay her 50 a check but i went back to school and she agreed it was more important i use my money for that. Now all the sudden she keeps asking me for money i already gave her 300 a couple months ago. Now i have no money, my SO sold a classic car of his but he spent most of that and he knows my mom wouldnt pay him back if he lent her money. Plus i am racking up the medical bills, they've done gene testing on me, i have to get constant blood tests, i have seen 2 neurologists, had an mri, now im seeing an OB, already had 3 ultrasounds, ive seen 2 different endocrinologists. Now i have to get an amnio and see a geneticist. I have health insrunace but its not that good. Im starting to owe a lot of money. My mom even declared bankruptcy when she was with my dad which is done now. But we both have the name Kathleen and they totally mixed up my credit with hers and had me as declaring bankruptcy. I was pissed about that my credit is still messed up, thats a battle in itself trying to get that figured out. They had me as having a credit record since 1974 when i was born in 1981 how crazy is that. My mom is the type if i dont give her money she will announce she cant help me by taking me to doctors appointments since i dont drive ( long story) or taking me food shopping ect. What does she want me to do we dont even have enough money for oursleves and our kids let alone her. She's 57 years old its not my responsibility to financially support her when i have 3 kids to worry about taking care of and my income is below poverty level. I swear its just one thing after another in my life. I'm already not talking to my alcholic dad for a month now and  having issues with my SO. My mom was telling me she had to pay all of her lectric bill including past due or they would shut it off and they wouldn't make any arangements with her because she makes slightly over what they allow u to make and make arrangements. She informed me her friend whose husband is a dentist is allowing her to borrow the money. She also borrowed money from her friend to get her car fixed. Like my SO said if she doesnt have to pay bill how would  she pay him back we cant afford to just hand out money. I mean my mom has friends she can ask for money who are well off and very colse to her. So why does she try to guilt trip meinto lending her money. Sigh when it rains it pours.