I'm to blame???????????

[CASIEH]

we went to my daughters psyc doc appointment and I swear fi she did'nt push me to the edge. She told my husband that I need to love her more and not reject her, and that I need more counseling. I love my daughter unconditionally problems or not. And never have I ever rejected her in anyway. This lady just about got slapped, and my husband got so upset that he got up and walked out. She was rapped at age 6 and doesn't know how to deal with it still, shes full of anger and rage and as if I dont feel bad enough, this so called doctor blames me. I didnt do it! I've been getting her help for her rage even before this happened, I love on her when she lets me. I was malested when I was 3, rapped at 14 and I was the one rejected from my mother. She never got me help, could've cared less, ok me knowing how that feels & how much it had screwed a part of my life up this lady is going to tell me I'm not a good enough mother. Oh then she had the nerve to ask us if there was someone else in the family that could take care of her since we wanted to through her away. I dont know who to call but I'm turning her in to someone. So if anyone has any advice please give it to me!

[lessonlearned]

Sep. 25, 2008 at 3:37 PM

you need a new shrink.  Trust me...

[blessedwtwo15]

Sep. 26, 2008 at 10:02 AM

Hi I just got of the phone with you but my co-worker had walked in and she sits right next to me so I couldn't really talk but I feel so bad that you are going through all this I am gonna try and find out how you can have this so called professional counselor?? some how reprimanded or something she must be crazy to go as far as she went to say all those things. I will call you in a few. Molly

[melissa197829]

Sep. 30, 2008 at 1:30 PM

sweety i think you should look into a new dr!!  your daughter doesnt know how to deal with everything going on so she is going to blame you. my daughter does the same stuff she tells people i hit her AND I DONT. im looking for a new dr and therapist as well for my kids.  but dont give up on her i know its frustrating. its her way of letting out her anger.  i have a number you can call if you want it. ive been waiting to get a second opinion. let me know. i hope this is some help. 

[mimitothree]

Oct. 3, 2008 at 12:18 AM

I'm so sorry. I know you love your daughter.  I would turn this woman in to the AMA and who ever else will listen. Find another dr for your daughter. Tuck her in every night and tell her you will always love her.  You may get angry sometimes but that doesn't mean you don't love her. It's because your human.  Good luck momma, I hope I've helped some.  I'll say a prayer for you and your much loved daughter.