would i go back and change things

[Kate613]

Even if i could go back and know everything that would happen...would i do it again? Absolutely because i know what a great loving relationship i have with these kids. Their mother lost custody of them because she chose to live with a sex offender. When he got custody of them I was working full time and in college full time. It changed my life but I love them so i stepped up and took over the role of being a mother to them. Because I love them and i knew since their  Birth mother wasn't putting them first , I needed to..The same as I would do for a Birth Child. I have no issues with the children because i am a step-mom to them. They are thrilled that i am pregnant, thrilled that I am with their father. It really means a lot to me how much they love me even though i didn't give birth to them

[Kim370]

Jan. 7, 2009 at 1:45 PM

That is great that you have a good relationship with your step kids!  I am sure being a step mom is very hard sometimes.  How are things going right now with your pregnancy?