Okay, I have been fighting myself of whether or not I want to have another baby. I do because I love babies and all the other fun and cute things about them. I don't because they are so much work, cost so much and who's career will be put on hold? MINE! I just got into it and I love it. I really want to go for Veterinarian in about 3-4 years once my two kids are in school. I also don't want to be fat again. I am already having a hard time loosing the baby fat from the last baby and she is now 15 months old. Husband really wants another one though. I don't know!

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wiener
Sep. 29, 2008 at 7:00 AM

first your not fat, your a heck of a lot smaller than I am and your looking good for having a baby 15 months ago. Look at me my son is 2 and I still look pregnant.   I would do what your heart tells you to do.  you can still have a baby and work, yeah it will be hard but it can be done, or you can always wait and try to have another baby in a year or two.  I think you might be having the baby fever as your youngest is growing up so fast as they all do and you want another one to hold and cuddle...  I would wait a few months then think about it then.

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jomon...
Sep. 29, 2008 at 10:20 AM

I love ya Bree and I really think you should do it now!! Have them now and live with no regrets Wait and you may to give something up or you may never have anymore and you dont want that regret either !!

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sigph...
Sep. 29, 2008 at 5:56 PM

I was once told you'll never regret the kids you have, only the ones you never had.

Of course, I'm having the same dilemma myself.

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fire_...
Sep. 30, 2008 at 12:27 AM

Thanks you guys! I'm not really saying I'm fat. I just miss my nice slim body that I used to have before I had the kids! Plus, when I was pregnant I felt clumsy and obviously fat. Thanks for the advice.

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