I feed Devon 24 - 7.... I get every 2-3 hours at night... I change the diaper and give him a bath and hold him when he's upset... play with him... etc... and on top of that I clean the house... set appts.... go to the appts. take care of all the errans... handle all everything... just because I don't work right now doesn't mean you don't need to help out! I don't get a day off... I don't just work 8 hours a day 40 hours a week! I work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week! Don't give me that "I work" and "I pay the bills"   .... I gave labor... I carried him for 9 months... I put my whole life on hold and still am to take care of our son.... What have you done? And I don't mind doing all this... all I ask for is a little respect.... appriciation.... I mostly ask for you to not give me any bs about how I care for our son and about the house not being clean when you get home and you not having dinner when you get home! Give me a break.

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sosoc...
Sep. 29, 2008 at 12:51 PM

Omg!!! I jus had a set of twins and Im feeling tha exact same way!! Regardless if we work outside tha  home, we still work . Even if tis inside tha home takin care fo kids. They dont understand what we go through when we have kids. All ma boyfriend is worried bout is when we can start havin sex again. WHO CARES bout that right now!!!angry

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jrHowser
Sep. 30, 2008 at 11:15 AM

Oh I know! my mans that same way... sex is the last thing on my mind. I told him not to even think about it until he starts helping me out.

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