Unwanted and Unloved

[tonisalex]

Okay, I try not to be a needy person but I just can't help but feel unwanted or unloved when my husband rather be out doing things with out me and my friends plan things with out me. And its things we have always done as a big group cause we always thought of each other as family. Plus my family doesn't call me, I always have to call them. I just don't know what to do. I took off last night from my house on the intent of not coming back til today, (me and hubby got into a nasty fight and Yes I took my kids) well as I was driving trying to figure out where I was going to go, I realized that I have no where to go. All of my family lives in a different state, I have friends but can I really say that they are true friends. They tell me that their doors are always open but none of them have kids and would they really want me knocking at 3am on their door asking  for a place to crash for the night with my 3 kids, I think not. This weekend I found out that there was a birthday bash and we weren't invited, not that they intended to leave us out (us as me and hubby and kids) but it was last minute thing that no one really knew about but pretty much get the same story from everyone, they were planning something they just didn't know how big it was going to be. SO I just feel so left out of things and unloved. Okay enough of me feeling sorry for myself.

[KatieMommy9303]

Sep. 30, 2008 at 8:36 AM

I hear ya, it's hard to not feel that way sometimes. If you ever want to chat, add me as a friend.

[lecialou63]

Nov. 1, 2008 at 7:55 PM

not sure where ya live but I also live "somewhere in USA" and if it's anywhere near a tiny town in the Adirondacks in New York, you can always stop on in here.  I have 2 daughters 20 and 17 and a grandbaby 2.  While I can't offer you beds for you and your 3 little ones, I could offer you to shar a bed or grab a sleeping bag.  Most of the time I have to go out and pick up DH from the bar anywhere from 1a-3a.  I'm a lite sleeper and it would be no bother at all.  But if you live somewhere like CA, ya might not want to take the drive.  LOL