Rules for every Relationship!

[babybluemama22]

1. If you have a problem with me tell me. Don't yell it at me or drop hints, or talk shit behing my back. Come to my face and tell me. Don't sit there and be bitter and make me wonder wtf. Doesn't matter how big or how small, even if it's the way my hair grows tell me.

2. Fight constructivly. Don't yell and throw burritos at me. Sit down and talk to me about what is bugging you. When I come to you and have an issue please listen and try to understand. If you don't understand let me know and I will help you to.

3. Respect me.

4. Don't walk away from a fight. that doesn't mean you can't take a few to cool down, but don't think that cause you got that moment means the talk is over.

5. Don't yell at me, yelling doesn't get you anywhere but a headache.

6. If I ask you to do something and have to keep asking please don't get so fucking pissed at me cause I keep asking. I am asking you for a reason.

7. If you don't want to do something I want to do tell me, don't go and make me miserable. There will be times I will drag you but please tell me.

8. Tell me when you want to buy something $$$ don't just go out an buy it please.

9. If you have a female coworker or close friends please don't  hide her. It will lok suspicious.

10. DO NOT EVER LIE TO ME!!!!!!!!!!!

11. If you don't like the meat I cooked or have a suggestion please tell me, Cause *this goes for everything* if you do nothing, nothing is what's gonna get done.

12. If I ask you does this dress make me look fat, one I know the answer and two if I do not look good in it just tell me in a nice way. Like hunny I love you. and that will be that.

13. Yes it is going t otake me 2 hours to get ready to go out, so please tell me 3 hours in advance.

14. Call me on my shit. If I am doing something jevnile/immature/stupid/being too bossy what have you, please call me on it.

15. Please remember a marriage relationship isn't 50/50 it's 100/100

16. If you want to go hang out with the boys that's fine. But please don't forget to hang out with me as well.

17. If you ask me whats wrong, please be ready to really listen.

[BellasMommy2005]

Oct. 3, 2008 at 4:02 PM

I LOVE YOUR RULES!!!!!!

[rissah]

Oct. 3, 2008 at 4:16 PM

If only it was always so cut and dry with EVERYONE

[monkeymama19]

Jan. 24, 2009 at 5:17 AM

sooooo true!

I made a copy and forwarded it to my hubby.... he needs to read this!