I have been with a wonderful man named Jeremy for going on 6 years. We have 4 beautiful children together. Here for the past 13 months Jeremy has been stationed in Iraq due to come home early December! For the past week or so he's been really distant. So I started asking questions. 6 years and he still had yet to ask me to marry him! Why? He tells me he loves me daily. So I called and talked to his mom who told me she was busy and would call me back. When she called back, I found the answers to all of my questions. When Jeremy was home on leave in April, we had got into a fight and he had left for a few days. Well within that few days he met this girl. He got her pregnant. After he found this out, they got a proxy marriage. They father of my children, the love of my life. Actually got married and now he says he is in the process of getting divorced! WHAT DO I DO? We was talking this past friday and he had asked me to marry him, but forbid for me to tell anyone. Who actually does that to someone? Who asks them to marry you and then forbid them to tell anyone. But in the whole thing, he hasnt talked to me for 2 days. His mom is biting my head off, geez I didnt know he was marriedd. I always thought that maybe he just wasnt ready to marry me. Now I need to figure out how to tell him its over but I still want him in the kids life. Can someone please help me? Im desperate, I have a broken heart, 4 kids who ask for their daddy every 10 minutes and.....no words to know what to say. PLEASE HELP!!
~<3~ Brooke ~<3~