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Just about ready to kill the bitch!
- Oct 14, 2008 at 8:52 AM
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Okay, as you all know my daughter's father shot himself 2 weeks ago. As if that has not been tragic enough, his ex-girlfriend, who will be known from here on out as "the bitch", has been playing head games and truly needs her ass kicked.
As I stated in previous posts, the bitch is an obsessive-compulsive control freak who thinks she's all that. It wasn't bad enough that she emasculated the man and took all his money, basically treated him like a piece of shit while he was alive, but ya'll ain't gonna believe what she's been up to since. First of all, she had audacity enough to show up at the memorial service. Okay, granted she was a part of his life, and for whatever reason he loved her, but she was not wanted there, nor is she very well liked by his family, or any of his friends. So that being said, I guess she got her nose out of joint, or something, when she viewed the memory collages we made for the memorial and she wasn't in any of the pics (go figure...). Anyhoo, the next day ex-MIL goes to the bitch's apartment to collect his things and guess what, the bitch played the pregnancy card in an attempt to regain control of the situation. Yes people she actually told his grieving mother that she was about 6 weeks pregnant, BUT, did not plan on keeping the baby. SMACK---- What the hell kind of person says shit like that to a grieving mother. As if that wasn't bad enough, now all of his personal belongings (jewelry, NASCAR collectibles, pictures, etc.) are conveniently missing. Things that she swore were packed in the boxes she gave ex-MIL. So yes, after hearing this I am thoroughly pissed off. Beyond pissed off actually...you could probably say I'm homicidal. Well, ex-MIL had enough wits about her to make the bitch go to the hospital for blood work, not just the good old dip-stick method, and....you guessed it, she's not pregnant. Aaaaahhh! Does she actually have a death wish? I've lived in this town all my life. He and I shared hundreds of friends, most of whom still live here. She works as a bartender in the bar they all hang out. They have all told her about me and my temper. WTF is she doing? Is she trying to make me hurt her? because that is exactly where she's headed.
After the news broke that he was dead, I actually tried to give her the benefit of the doubt even though I knew that she was a catalyst for his actions. I never totally blamed her, just placed a little responsibility of her side, ya know? However, my mind is now so bent with anger that I totally blame her and can honestly say that the only thing standing between her and certain death at my hands is my daughter. I love my dd more than life and would never do anything to jeopardize her happiness. She has already lost her father and I intend to always be here for her without plexiglass standing between us.
That bitch has nearly destroyed his family and my dd is now without a father. Okay, realistically I know that she did not put the gun in his hand, nor did she pull the trigger, but she came damn close to it. Now every fiber in my body just wants to pave the road with her face.
I know, I know, my anger is going to eat me alive if I let it. So, rest assured I have already made inquiries about counseling and will definitely get myself signed up as soon as I find someone I feel I can relate to.
For now I will just keep doing what I've been doing, just put one foot in front of the other and remember to breathe.
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Breath...slowly babe. I know she is an asshat, but you gotta maintain your cool. DD needs you to be calm. You and i both know she isn't gonna have that baby. She can't get any child support from the man cause he's dead. Hopefully she will be out of your lives in no time. Just give it a little while longer.
Strega
I say we go have some fun.....
Oh wow! I'd feel the same way as you do!!! What a whack job! At least once you (or your exMIL) gets everything she can of his from her you can all rid the bitch from your lives. Good luck and please don't kill her, as hard as it may be! :)
I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this. I'm honestly surprised that your ex-MIL didn't snap and kill the lying bitch where she stood after hearing about the "pregnancy". That's pretty low of someone to do/say, especially to the mother of the man who died! Who does that? Anyway, Karma's a bitch, and she'll get hers. Unless he has a will and left the bitch anything, she has NO right to any of his stuff. If anything, his belongings will go to his child/children. If it comes down to it, call the cops on her ass.
What a CRAZY BITCH!!! She needs an ass beating! First a few knocks for just being a bitch, and probably causing that man to do the dirty deed, but then to fake a pregnancy! And then say she wasn't going to keep the baby!!! And to the man's poor mom!!!!! Since when did his suicide become all about her???
I know a sniper.......
ummmmmmmmmm... nothing that I would be willing to say here would help you keep yourself out of jail and would probibly put me right there beside you...sooo inform me if I need to make plans for a quick visit and alabi
OH God, I'm so sorry, oh geez, gf, focus on avoiding the plexiglass, focus on your daughter, just like you're doing.. crazy evil people can be infectious and make us want to do crazy evil things...I'm so sorry for your loss hun, so sorry you have to deal with this crazy bitch on top of everything else you are trying to get through. I know it won't help much, but it's all I got (((HUGS)))
I'm gonna go pick up Rarnald18,and we coming over and gonna have some fun.!!!That is just wrong,she will have to answer to what she does,but your liitle girl really needs her mommy right now.You take care over your daughter.leave the rest to us mommas good luck
You're a better woman than me, I would have already killed her and thought about the consequences later. Hang in there ma' everything will work out EVENTUALLY, but until then just stay strong
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I am so sorry you all are having to deal with this so-called human being. Sounds like she does need her ass beat! As for your MIL.. I'm surprised she kept her hands from not being around that things throat when she said she was pregnant and wasn't going to keep it.. Uh, I would've been in jail on that one. My heart goes out to you all! I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers!
- mdmjam
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