Saturday my boyfriend of 2 years and the father of my daughter Jaqui kicked me and the kids out of the house. My son has some special needs and has some learning disabilities and was using the heating vent in his room for a bathroom. My boyfriend couldn't take it anymore so now I am staying with my dad and trying to find a place to live. I work about 30 minutes outside of Cedar Rapids where I was living. Now I have to comute an hour right now to go to work.
He offered to let my daughter stay but I told him I wasn't going to leave any of my kids. My credit isn't the greatest so I'm having a really hard time finding a place. So right now my life sucks.
Okay I'm done for now just needed to vent a little.
UPDATE!!!!!
Well since I posted this his ex moved back in and now I've relocated to Waterloo permenently. My last day at this great job is Friday. I can't afford to travel an hour to get to work. Nor is it going to be safe here in a few weeks when the weather starts getting bad.
I've gotten a lawyer and I'm getting it in the paperwork that my daughter is not to be left alone with his ex. I don't trust her to keep her mouth shut when my ex is not around. My life still sucks but it's getting better.
He offered to let my daughter stay but I told him I wasn't going to leave any of my kids. My credit isn't the greatest so I'm having a really hard time finding a place. So right now my life sucks.
Okay I'm done for now just needed to vent a little.
UPDATE!!!!!
Well since I posted this his ex moved back in and now I've relocated to Waterloo permenently. My last day at this great job is Friday. I can't afford to travel an hour to get to work. Nor is it going to be safe here in a few weeks when the weather starts getting bad.
I've gotten a lawyer and I'm getting it in the paperwork that my daughter is not to be left alone with his ex. I don't trust her to keep her mouth shut when my ex is not around. My life still sucks but it's getting better.
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Nov. 9, 2008 at 8:54 PM
How are things going for you now? That is just too cruel what your bf did. Seems like to me he could have done something else, like helped you find another place and helped you pay for it. I hope things are going better for you by this time.
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I am really sorry... I hope things get better for you..Oh and good choice not leaving your daughter there. things will get better soon.
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