frustrated

[kalikona]

I am so frustrated with how things have been going lately. DH and I have been at eachothers throats since wednesday. I cant stand to look at him ive been so angry. I am sick of arguing with him and feeling like Im not appreciated. We got into pretty bad a few days ago and then i went online today to make sure I had the money in my acount to pay my car payment and low and behold he's opened up 2 new accounts. A saving and checking. HMMM sounds suspicous to me. Since they of course link them together online i saw it right away...probably seconds after he did it since he was on his lunch break as i was checking the account. Im fed up and dont know what to do. This is beyond unacceptable. Im not sure whether to reem his ass or wait to see if he decides to tell me.

I wonder if anyone else (im sure someone) has gone through this and honestly im at a loss at what to do and how to approach the situation.  i stay home but do daycare so I still "work" and even if i didnt do daycare id still be busy doing "work" around the house

[Roxannroxy]

Oct. 24, 2008 at 6:17 PM

Oh no that does not sound good. I would def be up front with him. I never really have been in this situaution cuz Albert and I still have seperate accounts but we argue and bicker when it comes to money and bills. Since I work a full time a job I take care of my bills and he takes care of his and we both contribute when Tre needs anything and it works out better for us. But you and you hubby are married so him doing that is unacceptable. Im sorry you guys are having such a rough time.

[caitandcarasmom]

Oct. 25, 2008 at 11:48 AM

Hmm, I would definetly approach him about this.  My DH opened a separate checking account awhile back but with the notion of putting money into it to pay our bills and keeping our grocery and spending money in our joint account.  I didn't know about it at first, but he did tell me.  Maybe he plans to explain his reasoning but call him on it.  It does sound suspicious, especially if you've been fighting a lot.

I hope that you guys can work things out.