letting off steam!

[kcd78]

I have had it with my in-laws!  I am so tired of them I really am.  my SIL is 23 years old,and has a 18 month old baby.  She was living in a income based appartment with her son and her lazy behind boyfriend.  Neither she nor the boyfriend has a job and the only income that they had was $250 worth of food stamps.  Part of the requirements to live in this apartment complex is that she needs to come in a sign paper every three months about her lack of income, which she failed to do.  she was kicked out and her boyfriend (who was never supposed to be there in the first place) got his things and left her and the baby on the the street.  she then went to stay with her mother but was told to get a job or leave so she left.  For the past three weeks she has been staying at her aunt's house. Not cooking, cleaning up or even taking care of her own child!  the only thing that she has to offer is those damn food stamps.  Now come to find out as of Nov 1 she will no longer get those. I called her trying to talk some kind of sense in that head of hers. you know what i got cussed out and then she told me that since I wanted to be in her business she is going to be in mine.by reporting me to the housing authority for getting in her affairs....you see I also get  assistance I am on section 8 however I pay 90% of my rent and I am staying on the program so that i have a chance to buy my own home by next year.  I am using this assistance to help me better my self and my family.  But she is sitting on her but doing nothing but gettting a check.  i get up 4 am every morning to catch 3 buses to work so that i can put food on my table and pay my bills she sits on her ass all day. oh oh and she has some of her things in my house because she had no place else to put them. 
i  am so tired of trying to help people! i know that i am not in the best place in the world but I am not in the worse either. and if giving her some advice of what not to do because i have done it and failed then why not help but no more.  its like Iraq in my house right now. my husband is soooo upset because i had no right to call his sister and tell her all the wrong she has been doing and she is not in my house but her shit is. and that little boy of hers needs a home that he can have not go from pillow to post. am i wrong for feeling this way?

[berniebell]

Oct. 29, 2008 at 11:06 PM

i agree with you... she needs to freakin grow up, she has a baby to take care of... and if she doesnt want to take care of that baby then shame on her and give her baby to someone who wants to take care of the baby.  Your husband will get over it... your just looking out for the good of the child...