Shutterbugmama's Journal

I've tried to be quiet; It's impossible.

She's the one who is ALWAYS THERE; even when you wish she'd disappear, because the mere SIGHT of her makes your blood boil.

She's always smiling her phony smile to your face, but when she turns away, LOOK OUT.  You know the real her, but you don't dare say a thing..you'll look worse that she does.  Dont stoop...

She's a thorn..she's the sharp object in your shoe that you cant seem sot find, so it just rubs your foot raw....

She smiles sweetly, loves herself completely, and is totally transparent. 

She says she'll be there, but never is, and never was.  She says she understands, then holds it all against you on her mountain of superiority, while whispering in another's ear, secrets you cant hear.

She smiles her fake smile in photos everywhere, and will beat you to wherever you're going, just to remind you that she exists.

You wanna hit her, but you dont. 

Why not?

Fear of jail..and that's IT.

Do you know her?

I hope not.

If you do though, LISTEN TO YOUR GUT.

And run....

there is no room for these people in your life.

LOVE is the ANSWER; and it starts with YOU.

Allow NO ONE IN who will TEAR YOU DOWN.

Live your purpose, leave toxic people behind, and LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO SAY NO MORE.

You deserve THE BEST.

(And don't hit her...I hear jail really is bad, and I'm pretty certain that we're too delicate for that...).

Let love in; LEAVE TOXIC PEOPLE OUT.

Love YOURSELF ENOUGH to Love THEM from far, far, far away...

BECAUSE YOU DESERVE LOVE.  And NOTHING less.

Enjoy your Thursday...

xo

 

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Lb128f
Oct. 30, 2008 at 8:46 AM

Good Morning! :-)

Good post, great pic!

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army_...
Oct. 30, 2008 at 8:49 AM

i love this! the pic is beautiful

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jsnzmom
Oct. 30, 2008 at 8:58 AM

Amen, sister!  I got rid of the toxic people in my life and I'm sooo much happier and healthier for it.  Great post.  I love the pic, too!  Hope you enjoy YOUR Thursday as well!!!

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GaviBear
Oct. 30, 2008 at 9:08 AM

Yep, I weeded these people out too.  Can't afford another bout with disease!  Love ya!

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pinka...
Oct. 30, 2008 at 9:08 AM

i am so grateful I don't have any toxic pretend friends - I think I can sniff them out before they even try to latch on, LOL  ♥

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MrsSu...
Oct. 30, 2008 at 9:09 AM

What if your toxic people are related to you? They are hard to just let go of...even the poison. Its so hard!

 

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dearo...
Oct. 30, 2008 at 9:18 AM

Live your purpose, leave toxic people behind, and LOVE YOURSELF ENOUGH TO SAY NO MORE

i love that!

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momma...
Oct. 30, 2008 at 9:27 AM

I know the biggest one of all those CHIC'S....SHE'S MY MIL AND I WISH IT WERE THAT EASY TO WEED HER OUT! I just keep reminding myself that God has a plan and everything will work out for a reason! In the meantime we keep ourselves seperate from her as much as possible (she lives 2/10 of a mile away from us, so she stops by randomly ALL the time, just because she wants to see what we're doing!). The ONLY thing stopping me from hitting her in my sd, she's very attached to the shrew and my MIL would turn sd against me if I hit MIL, no matter how much she deserved it!

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Jakemmy
Oct. 30, 2008 at 9:29 AM

What a nice wake up journal to read! LOL. Loving you from DH's computer (I can type! I can type!)

 

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DestM...
Oct. 30, 2008 at 9:34 AM

Oh my gosh, I have a toxic MIL too, like mommabear2008!  LOL

Trusting one's gut is an amazing thing.................

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