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Im Having Marital Problems HELP!!
- Oct 30, 2008 at 8:48 PM
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Well first off, I am spiritual meaning i do believe in God but i will accept all types of answers no matter who you are and what you believe in. Well I have been having Dreams that i am married to another man who is sucessful and really fine. But i keep having all these dreams with different men, that i once knew or went out with and ones that i no there is no way in hell i would ever get that chance. I had a dream i was married to the rapper 50cent. yay ladies, who wouldnt want that!! Anyways, my husbad has no job right now but thats not the problem. I feel like he is not sensitive enough for and the kids. i feel like if i talk to him about it he will blow it out or poportion. I am not sure If i want to stay married because i am always getting put down on some things, And no one in my family likes him at all. I love him but i am not sure if it is enough. He has ways to manipulate things to his advantage and he tries to be controling. What do i do????
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The best thing to do is not to talk about the situation, until he's ready to talk about it. He's angry, stressed, frustrated just let him be, when cools off, he'll realize what he is saying. If you feel trapped you can separate for a while it will help both of you to think things over while your calmed.
Treat him as he treats you. Marriage is a 50/50 committment. Your both equal partners through out life.
When he finally figures out your treating him differently and asks you about it, tell him your just treating him like he treats you, how does he feel about it?
I did that years ago and wow it worked wonders!
Agree that marriage is 50/50 but sometimes we both have to give 60/40 so that it equals out to 50/50.
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Maybe he is doing that cause he doesn't have a job.I know when my husband was out of job years ago he told me felt like a loser and failure.And he was in a bad mood till he found one.Good luck!
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