Divorce Updates

[CandiGram]

Over the past few weeks (3 months), DH and I have gone our seperate ways. I worked on me and he worked on him.  I realized that I needed this to inorder to realize my worth. I allowed him to step all over me and I became very passive.  But not any more!!!! We came back together last weekend.  He realized how good we were together, apologized for alot of things, and is trying to make ammends.  We have set new basic rules for our relationship like putting each other first and clearing the clutter from our lives (people included!!!!)   So we are dating each other again (in secret of course, cause other folks get in and like to f*ck things up, at least till we are secure again. So don't tell anyone!)  I am enjoying this renewed relationship not just because we are back together but because I'm renewed.  I am spunky, sweet, sassy, and sexy.  I have reclaimed my identity so I am no longer just Hailey and Cammie's mom or David's wife but Candice.  And that makes a world of difference! 

[RachelsMuma7]

Oct. 31, 2008 at 4:27 PM

Glad for you!  That's the way to do it.... then you feel sexy again and it really works!

[donnaw2kids]

Oct. 31, 2008 at 8:30 PM

YOU GO!! And dont worry your secret is safe with me! Super happy for you!

[msmusic247]

Oct. 11, 2009 at 9:53 PM I am so proud of you, and I agree with you in keeping outside influences out because people will always be negative. Your secret is safe with me.