My SO made me feel like crap last night...

[Tisha1115]

  I am having a serious females health problem, one of 3 things are possible. Endometriosis, a fibrous cyst, or cancer. I have a mass of soft tissue attached to my left ovary and left side of my uterus, I am waiting on my MRI results to find out a little more detail.

  We were talking last night and he brought up the subject (very quietly). My DD was in the next room so really nothing I could say loud enough to get my point across. He say that he hopes it is nothing and is an easy fix or he will have to explore other avenues and real quietly states "I want kids" (dd is not his). I want more kids and am planning on at least 2 more (maybe 3). This is a complete turn around from last week when he told me if it comes to it we'll get married so I can be on his insurance since mine sucks. When I tell him I want more kids too and that he wasn't being PC he goes and says "well then maybe our relationship will just have to get interesting". ie he gets to be with other women if I am unable to have sex for to long. OMG that hurt my feelings sooo much, I have enough to deal with already so lets make me feel like shit while he's at it. men can be so insensitive sometimes and this is the most inappropriate time of all.

[CandBmommy]

Mar. 25, 2009 at 12:57 AM

I don't think that's someone you would want to be with for the rest of your life, let alone the father of your children, what type of values would he teach them?