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[noah_n_mommy07]

So, my husband walked out on me for some girl that he met online.  I want him back. Is that so horrible? He broke my heart. But, I am terrified to go at this alone. I am afraid that I wont be able to handle two small children at the same time. And I just dont know what to do anymore.

any advice?

[aaflyin4alivin]

Nov. 10, 2008 at 11:59 AM

ok WHY do you want him back?  C'MON be strong what a total LOSER to leave you and the kids for someone he met online...SO...why?  He will do it again, trust me...go to court get child support ..stand up be strong...have some self respect..it's HARD   I KNOW..but I did it years ago and then finally found a wonderful man whom loves me and the kids more than anything!!!!!!!!!!!!

[older]

Nov. 10, 2008 at 12:08 PM

EASIER SAID THAN DONE, BUT THE PRIOR COMMENTS SAY IT ALL.  DO IT FOR YOUR KIDS, STAND UP AND BE STRONG, YOU CAN DO WITHOUT A MAN, IT WON'T BE AN EASY ROAD, BUT TO HAVE A MAN WHO WILL LEAVE YOU FOR A TOTAL STRANGER IS BETTER NOT TO HAVE ONE AT ALL.  YOU ARE CAPABLE OF DOING IT ON YOUR OWN, OTHERS HAVE DONE IT WHY NOT YOU!

[princess1973]

Nov. 10, 2008 at 12:58 PM

I totally agree, you can do it, but it wil be the hardest thing you will ever have to do.....I have been single for almost 5 years now.....and No it doesn't get any easier....but you will be ok....Hold your head up and be the best mom you can be....

 

[baconbits]

Nov. 10, 2008 at 2:52 PM

Have strength. Do you really want someone back who walks out on you and the children? Do the children need someone in their lives that walked out on them? Yes it is frightening to go it alone.  Been there done that with 3 girls. You can make it. You simply take it one day at a time. Court will order child support. Family & friends will help.

Ask yourself this...did he ever really help you with the children or were you doing a lot of it on your own already?

[noah_n_mommy07]

Nov. 19, 2008 at 10:01 PM

Thanks, you were all right. and yes I was doing it on my own.. I have decided to move on, it will just take time. But, I could really use someone to fall back on for advice sometimes and i cant go to my family.  It is just soo hard right now.

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