Maybe I am really not ready for dealing with people on CM's. I have great kids, one of them is a jock, the other gay. They take good care of eachother and are very typical brothers, they fight, they laugh, and watch over me and their Dad. It has not been easy to have a child that is gay but I wouldn't trade him for anything. I guess what I am getting around to saying is I have been all over the world and I have met a lot of wonderful people here on CM. In the same respect I come across more cruelty on this same board than I have ever seen before. It makes me fear for what both of my sons will face out there. People really are cruel and really do not care what they say. I guess it has been a wake up call for me. I really believe that humans are basically good some where in every one is a part of them that is kind. Yea, here lately not so much.