I've never really believed in love at first sight before. I believed that two people could have an intense connection from their first meeting, but could it really be love? I think the problem with believing in love at first sight is that we all have our own interpretations and definitions of what love is. I've had a few occations in the past where I thought I could possibly be in love with someone and I've told them. I have learned that in those cases the love I thought I felt was either fleeting and momentary, a love for a friend, and in some cases, not love at all. I have never experienced the Romeo and Juliet, you are the only person I want to be with kind of love. I became convinced that it simply did not exist. 
Fast forward to today. I now have a boyfriend who I don't even like to call my boyfriend because it feels like such a weak word to describe the relationship I have with him. No matter what I say, he gets me and he doesn't judge me. I can trip on thin air in front of him, laugh so hard that I snort, or make stupid faces for no reason and he only likes me more. From the very first date I had with him (which lasted for three perfect days) to today that first feeling of "he's perfect for me" has not faltered once. Whether we're laughing, being serious, being cheesy, or arguing the connection I have for him doesn't change at all. So my question for you is, is this for real? It is mere curiosity that drives me to ask anyone who reads this to post a comment, telling me whether or not they personally believe in love at first sight. Go ahead, if I can pour my secret (or not so secret) obsession for my boyfriend out to all of you, you can comment and tell me if you believe it exists. Whether you've experienced it or not do you think it is possible for two people to meet and instantly fall in love?

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