Help!

[luvmyboys2]

My Ex wont leave me alone!  Im only safe on this site since its a female only site, but he finds me on myspace & facebook!  I can make my page private, but still he sends me messages! So its pointless to have a private page!  WTH can I do? I ignore him & dont respond & he still keeps the messages coming.  He apparently works in the Supermarket close to my home... I found this out a while ago so I avoid that store at all costs unless its an emergency cause it IS the closest....I met a friend for lunch yesterday & he just happened to show up at the place &&&&& come over & say hello to me! I had my 3 kids with me!  My oldest knew him, but saw him last when he was 3!  Thankfully Dominic didnt ask questions, but come on!!! WTF do I have to do? Tell him to leave me the F alone? Im not like that... Im quiet, non confrontational etc... I just dont want DH to find out... Long story short::: DH & I divorced, he & I were together, things ended, DH & I are back together now +2 more kids... Any advice ladies?  I just want to avoid a blow-up with DH at all costs... Thanks in advance!

[Hartbrayka]

Nov. 17, 2008 at 1:04 AM

wow, to be honest with you, I think you need to send him a nice long message and tell him how you feel, and that you don't want him to contact you anymore, and that you are happily married, and don't want to start a problem.  But seriously, if he don't get the hint then, I honestly think you should tell your hubby.  I had a stalker x bf and he was also abusive when we were together, so being abusive and stalking me wasn't a good mix.  It's hard to talk about it, but if you want to talk more about it, just message me.  Good luck!

[hazeleyes0606]

Nov. 17, 2008 at 9:11 AM

I have to agree with Hartbrayka. You need to let him know you don't want to be with him or have any contact with him, if he doesn't like that answer then let your husband know. If he is stalking you online then you can block his name. If he finds you in public that is another story. Good Luck, hope things get better.

[My3Sons72916]

Nov. 17, 2008 at 9:29 AM

I would tell him to back off.  You're happy with your hubby, this guy makes you uncomfortable, you don't want to upset hubby and cause problems in your marriage, and this guy needs to know that.  Good luck sweetie!!