Please send your replies to my email address instead of posting here. Also need your first and last name.

stonewoodstylists@asapnet.net

 

Dear  Friends,  Family, Clients, but most important to anyone who has been married. I am going to attempt to do a book that has been in my heart for awhile. ( so please do not steel my idea,lol) I would love to get all of you imput on this. What I am looking for is simple sentences on why you married the man/women you did and how many years have you been married, basically what is the reason why two of you have been together for so long? Another words what makes your marriage click? If you are not married but have been with the same guy/gal  for awhile I am going to have a seperate area for this. Please send  your info to my email address also please let me know if you are willing to have your name recorded in the book with your few sentences. stonewoodstylists@asapnet.net

Being a hairdresser I have a few clients that are older and married for over 60 years it will be interesting to see everyone viewpoint on marriage. Please help me by passing this on to your list of friends, I would like to get as many responses as possible. Even if you do not want to send me something please pass this on to someone who may. If anyone knows of anyone who is slightly famous I would love to get their responses also. This should be a great way to explain to the younger kids how to make it work. And lord knows sometimes for us old farts too. Thank you a head of time.

p.s If someone wants to mail me a copy instead of email send to Carmen Jashinsky 17700 W. Capitol dr Brookfield, Wi 53045

 pss.This has been a dream of mine for 10 years and I really want to make this work. If anyone knows of a publishing place that might be able to help me also please let me know.

 

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newmo...
Nov. 23, 2008 at 9:35 AM

I have been married for only 6 months. i married keith for the fact i loe his humor. He can make a joke about anything and it funny. If I am in a bad mood all he has to do it make copy my actions and face expressions and I start laughing and not in a bad mood anymore. We are just the perfect couple because we our agurements only lst for about 30 minutes than we are not mad anymore. 
You can use this. You just have to tell me when you publish your book and when it will hit stores so i can buy one.

lmayw...
Nov. 24, 2008 at 9:53 PM

been married for 12 years together 14 years.  I won't be with out him.  He is the other half of me.  I know that it sounds silly, but it is true. We balance each other, are  close friends, know each others dreams and goals and support each other in getting there.  We have had our share of rough patches, but we are committed to working it through and staying together.  My loving husband married me and then 30 minutes later adopted my 4 children. The man is either a saint or crazy. hehe

SAMAN...
Nov. 25, 2008 at 1:14 AM

Hey this is Samantha.I have been married for 7 years now but been with my husband Blake for 10. Me and him got together when I was 13 and his was 15...so year a real long time lol and started when we was lil lol,but I wouldn't change a thing.I had talked to him a few time's on the phone but had never meet him.So on my 13 B-day party I asked him to come and when I first layed my eye's on him I new then he was the one! I felted it deep inside my heart. The sparks you always hear about yeah they where there lol.So we started dateing then and 3 years later I got married to him when I was 16 had a first baby when I was 18( our son ) and at 20 I had are daughter.Don't get me wrong it hasn't been pitcure perfected the whole time but whose marriage is ya know but all the hard times has brought us so much closer and makes us fight through any hard times together and to never give up. He is the father to my kids, my wonderful wonderful husband but most of all he is my BEST FRIEND!!!!!

Twobe...
Nov. 26, 2008 at 8:22 PM

I've been married for almost 9 years.  I love every minute of it -- yes, even the bad ones.  I married my husband because I love him dearly and because he's my best friend.  Happiness is being married to your best friend!

LeoPiper
Nov. 27, 2008 at 10:28 AM

I have been married 4 years to my soul mate I married him because I love him and couldn't stand to be away from him I still love him to this day humor communication and love keep us going strong

grace...
Nov. 27, 2008 at 11:47 PM

Sent you an e-mail response :)

grace...
Nov. 28, 2008 at 2:01 PM

Thought of something else:  Forgiveness is the Key!

Also, if you don't like the way your husband does the dishes, stay out of the kitchen :)

Beach...
Dec. 2, 2008 at 5:31 PM

I put God first and the rest seems to work itself out. I have been married for 23 years and we have done it the "worlds way" and then there is "God's Way."  I rather go His way.

Sharon Kopplin

dmd2469
Dec. 5, 2008 at 10:57 AM I have been with my husband for almost 6 yrs and we have been married for almost 2. Our first yr of dating was very hard b/c he had just gone through a divorice and wasn't ready for another serious relationship. I stayed with him because I had true feelings for him and couldn't imagine my life without him. After a year of dealing with his crap I told him that I was done and he changed completely after that. He has been my bestfriend and the best dad that I could have ever asked for. I love him more and more every day. I feel that our love for eachother pushes us through the rough times. Denael

speak...
Dec. 15, 2008 at 6:47 AM

My husband and I have been together for 11yrs. married 10yrs. We have been through alot But, I would not change a thing we have grown so strong and our wisdom and maturity has made the bond between us is very peaceful. I love my lobster its been fun,sad,anger,laughter, ect. Thats a wonderful feeling to have someone to go through everything in life with is amazing. Be honest, trusting, faithful, patient, and lots of affection. Don't be afraid to show affection and love in public .love and age makes you wiser and stronger as you hang in there and believe in your spouse and the love you share for eachother and your children.The children also grow to know how to respect relationships when they get older and how to have a heathy marriage.   Mel and ray.

 

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