I am getting F***ed over by my husband and UPDATE

[lilchubrmufn]

I am pissed and Im gunna shove all this math and all the facts up his ass!!( i mean in his face lol) omg I finally did the math and im hurt and so mad. My husband and I each have bills that we hafta pay. I thought he was going to take over the utilities but i guess i was wrong. According to him I should be paying Car Ins.,power, cable, and credit cards ..... he pays rent,gas ($50) and groceries ($100-200) .. I have been argueing over this for awhile now and Im gunna drop the ball THIS MORNING.

Now i know why ive been so stressed about bills. What he wants me to pay is 75% of what i make in a month.....

He pays 47% of what he makes in a month....

This is the whole reason we dont go joint, i always hafta pick up the pieces when he over draws his account and keep our head above water. Im sick of it! I dont need this stress!!!!! about a yr ago i left my great paying job because i was overly stressed, he was being virbally abusive, my 40-55 hr stressful job was taking a toll on me, i was litterally loosing my hair and my mentality wasnt so great either. Not to mention I am and have always been the major caregiver of our 2 yr old. So.... i took a closer to home, non-stressfull, 1.50 less an hr, 30hr a week job that i love and I have no work stress only him stress.

I dunno what to do , well im gunna leave it at that because my comp is gunna die and im gunna go get very angry at him. lol

 UPDATE: I bitched at him and he was in bed, he said "ah huh....." then turned over and went back to sleep omg i wanna beat him!! so I took his debit card and charged $200 on it paying bills.. haha bastard

 

[Princefan6684]

Nov. 26, 2008 at 7:05 AM

awww, so sorry to hear that hun. Your hubby sounds like mine! Selfish and irresponsible with money! But kudos to you for seeing past his BS.....put him in his place girl!

[Wounded]

Nov. 26, 2008 at 9:07 AM

Did you marry my husband?

[lilone292]

Nov. 26, 2008 at 10:58 PM

good for you! serves him right!