For single moms and some married women as well (some language)

[10-30-06mom]

Ok ladies I need to vent...... I am really starting to believe that maybe I should be a single mom for the rest of my life! Seems a little over the top but I can't take the men these days what world did they grow up in that they could get by on doing nothing!!! They don't pick up after themselves they don't do things unless you nag for two hours and then they complain to their bodies that all we do is nag they don't realize if they would just do things without us asking we wouldn't "nag" I don't want him to want to the dishes I just want him to do it without me asking is that really to much to ask? Oh and when it comes to taking care of kids it is just fucking stupid! I have been dating someone for six months and I do all the hard parts with my son all he does is play with him and he informed me that being a step-dad is too stressful wtf!!! I hate that as women we must take all the responabilities I wish I could turn off being a parent. He also informed that he is just to selfish right now to want a family, he is perfectly ok with just sitting infront of a t.v all day playing video games or just watching t.v. This man is almost 24 are you fucking kidding me!! I give this man everything I cook, clean, and putout all the time(sorry if that was tmi) and he is telling me that it won't work because he is just too selfish. Sorry it was so long thanks for listening!!!

Brittany

[mamapotter]

Dec. 2, 2008 at 5:54 PM

Maybe you'll be feeling a little too stressed out to cook his dinner, or wash his clothes, or put out. Maybe being a wife is just too stressful right now, lol.  See how he like them apples!

[mamapotter]

Dec. 2, 2008 at 5:55 PM

Sorry, I meant to say maybe you'll be feeling too selfish, lol!

[gruuvymom]

Dec. 2, 2008 at 5:56 PM

  Been there dated that. I dated a guy once who also told me he wasn't ready to date someone with kids. This was when my older two were small. On one hand I was devestated, on the other I was like 'ok, asshole thanks for your honesty" I'm not gonna try to give you advice, you know whats best for you and your little man. Good luck and dont compromise!! By the way, hes a cutie!!!!!!!!!

[alwaysmom98]

Dec. 2, 2008 at 7:15 PM

yuck, men suck....and to my knowledge thay all seem t be the same....You just have to pick and choose what you are willing to put up with. Or become a lesbian. LOL, but sometimes men are just too damn much trouble :)