Update.

[goth_mama]

It is officially safe to say that I will be getting divorced. We have dealt with some serious problems for a long time, including infedelity. The medical issues I mentioned earlier are what did us in. Because of his indiscretions I now have severe cervical dysplasia and will need part of my cervix removed. There is literally no hope for our relationship at this point.

This is not really as bad as it sounds though. For a long time I felt myself slipping away from him and shortly before we seperated (the day before Thanksgiving) I started feeling myself attracted to our roommate. I never saw it coming but he felt the same for me so I have someone to help get me through this time.

Thank you all for your concern.

[lara33]

Dec. 7, 2008 at 2:45 PM

I'm sorry to hear that you had to go through this and are now going through the resolution of the marriage, but it definitely sounds like the right thing to do.  Big hugs mama! xoxo

[ItalianJubilee]

Dec. 7, 2008 at 2:48 PM

I'm sorry hun, what is cervical dysplasia and how did he cause it?

[dsteiner23]

Dec. 7, 2008 at 2:50 PM

Oh boy, what a bummer.  I'm sorry you had to suffer through such things to the point that you did.  Best wishes for a brighter future!

[army_wife_06]

Dec. 7, 2008 at 8:42 PM

I am so sorry that happened. Your cervix will grow back and there is a good chance that you will have no signs of having part of it removed. If you have any questions PM me.
I hope things work out for you for the best. Good luck.

[ProudSingleMum]

Dec. 7, 2008 at 9:58 PM

not that you asked, but my advice would be to stay away from the roomate...at least for a while. Don't hop right into another relationship.

[sherriet]

Dec. 7, 2008 at 11:28 PM

I wish you the best.  Hugs.

[Lucky2BaMomof2]

Dec. 8, 2008 at 11:40 AM

I'm happy youre being brave and you have someone to stand by your side through it. ... It's hard to do alone. . . I'm not online a lot anymore but I check in every so often. ... keep us updated. .. We DO care about you!!

hugs nad luvs!!
STeph

[bornabrat123]

Dec. 8, 2008 at 9:54 PM

you deserve to be treated better than that anyways  maybe this will turn into a good thing you never know sending good thoughts your way

[RetroDawn]

Dec. 9, 2008 at 12:53 AM

I'm sorry.  I am going through basically the same situation, I just haven't found the courage to leave yet.   I'm always been so brave, but now I am more scared than ever too....  Stay strong!  I'm proud of you.  Wish I could do the same....

[volvowife]

Dec. 15, 2008 at 2:24 PM

My heart goes out to you!!!  I am so sorry!!!  If you are at a peace, then that is what is best for you!  Your kids deserve to have a happy mama, and I know you can look in the mirror and say you gave your all.