I have been unhappy here in Romania for a while, I am sick of the people, the country, lack of friends, and  now struggling with the economy ..I am just tired. Well now we have pretty much been told were moving in the Spring and guess what... I am sad about leaving here. I see my kids have a  GREAT school,  their friends, and I have 2 great women wanting to help me with our UC and I don't know if I will get those things when we move. These 3 things alone make me not want to leave but God I hate Romania and this other country is suppose to be awesome. But I am worried about the kids, 3 countries in 2 years. That's hard. starting over is hard. International moves are so physically and eemotionally demanding and now I am going to be 7 months pregnant doing one. I don't know what I want, I want to stay here, I want to move, I want to go back to the states... What I really needs are prayers for me to find peace. I need to find a way to quit worrying and relax, I am so stressed.

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Dec. 12, 2008 at 2:02 PM

It would be nice if we could just let the stresses of our lives not effect us! But when things are so up-in-the-air and emotianally draining it's hard to find peace of mind. I say, just try to keep in mind that things ALWAYS work themselves out and I believe everything happens for a reason and wherever you end up you will make it work because you've come this far! It's amazing how strong women are. We just do what we have to do. Maybe try to look at this new move as an adventure rather than a burden and that maybe you may end up LOVING it! Hope it all works out for you and your family!

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Dec. 12, 2008 at 2:51 PM

i wish you clarity and peace in your decision process.what country might yu be moving too?blessings~

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Dec. 12, 2008 at 5:12 PM

Will be saying a prayer for you!!

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