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when did it become ok...?
- Dec 12, 2008 at 10:05 PM
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ok, so, when did it become ok to throw out your child? sorry, i ment to say, for your dh to throw out his child he had before you??? to sign away his rights and not pay a dime, even if the bm needs it?? how is that ok? how can you support a man who can make a baby then decide that he wants to sign away his rights cause not only does he not want anything to do with the baby(he can do that without signing away his rights), he does not want to own up to his obligations and support that child at least financially??? and dont give me the 'if women can abort babies...' crap, cause we all know that 99% of abortions(if not more)are wanted by BOTH parties, so that has nothing to do with someone saying that its the womens responsibility ONLY if the baby is kept.... i mean, hello.... he can wrap it!!!! bc is NOT just the womens responsibility... if he does not want to be a daddy, he can wrap it... and we all know that no form of bc is 100%... we also all know that women can lie about bc... its personal responsibility, and if a baby pops up cause of it, they are BOTH financially responsible for the baby!!!!!!!!!!
i can not fathom how so many WOMEN, MOMS, DOUGHTERS can say that a man has no responsibility to that baby!!!
Tags: abortion, babies, child support, cs, dad, father, mom, parentle rights, step mom, todlers
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I see it pissed you off as bad as it did me? Its utterly riducuolous. I hate that some men can just be done with their children
minimelda, your right.. and even then, if mom agrees, most courts wont allow it unless another is there to take up the financil responsibilities... but that does not stop some women from thinking there men should not be responsible for the babies they make!!!
Im totally in agreement with you... I dont understand some women when it comes to those issues, but there are so many things some women allow from the men in their lives that I cant wrap my mind around.
i know... i just dont get how MANY women think that way!!! its just... worng... and not just about his.. about taking responsibility all around!!!!!! my boys WILL be tought that there are actions and consequences for each action...
Hey, you know what if the dad doesn't want to stick around. Fine kick rocks sucker. We are all strong independant women and can handle our own. I would rather have the dad volonteer to sighn his rights away rather then spend the rest of my loife fighting with him for child support I will never get. At least if he signs his rights away when I find a guy who does want to step up then he can adopt my child, in the mean time I can take care of my own one way or another without some ass hole lurking in the shadows.
little bug, i might also, however, i refuse to give in to teaching men that they should only be held accountable if THEY choose to... and iim sick of women who marry these men, and complain about the 'other women' that he has to give money to for a kid he dont want... some women need the help.. and even if they dont, the kid does deserve it... cs is to supliment what the child would have if both parents were there... the women who want to do it on there own, more power to em... but to let all men off that easy, i think is sick... to just say, hey, who cares about the childs needs, or that the mom cant make it on her own, just care about his wants...
yes, i think that if both mom and dad decided to do it, that would be great, but i dont think he should be able to decide that on hs own like that
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From what I understand a father cannot sign off his rights to a child unless the mother agrees to it, if he could just do it on his own most dead beat dads would do it so they arent sued for child support. I agree its morally wrong, but I am almost certain that the mother has to agree to it. Most ppl do this so that the mother can later choose the proper "man" to adopt the child freely without any red tape from the biological father.