Maternal Fetal Specialist

[hohaas]

This afternoon at 3:15pm I went to the Maternal Fetal specialist, which in my opinion, was a big waste of time. But I understand it is necessary for Dr. Fauley to have the 2nd opinion. We didn't learn anything we didn't already know. They'll send all their reports and whatnot to Dr. Fauley.

I got there and filled out paperwork. I got my US next. Funny thing, the tech there did training at the CMH and she asked who did my US and I told her Beth and she remembered her and Dr. Havey too. Anyway, she finished up and then got the dr so he could look around too. The dr (can't remember name) was nice but I was annoyed at the fact that he seemed to think termination was the best thing and he made it known. Being the nice person I am I kept my mouth shut. Nothing he says is going to change my mind. Next we went and saw the genetic counselor. She just went over medical and family history and talked a little about anencephaly. So the rest of my appts will be spent w/ Dr. Fauley and I am glad.

Anthony has mentioned to me about inducing around 30 wks but I just can't do that. I only have 4 more months to be w/ my daughter and I intend to have as much as that time as possible. I will talk w/ Dr. Fauley our next appt and ask her what she thinks would be a good time to induce b/c I will have to be induced since more than likely she will not come on her own.

A burden has been lifted off of our shoulders. My parents are paying for Carleigh's funeral expenses. It's something my dad really wants to do for us and we are really grateful.

So many things to think about, to plan, and to do. It'll all start once we're back from our trip. So we will try our best to get all the rest and relaxation that we need in.

[lilysmama23]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 8:07 PM

I hope you are able to have a great vacation... try and rest and relax. (Probably easier said than done) Anyway, my prayers and thoughts will be with you...

[megan772]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 8:09 PM

I continue to hold your family in prayer

[navy-wife]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 8:23 PM

Holly, don't let ANYONE force or pressure you into anything you do not want to do. If you want to carry her to 40 (or even 45 weeks is a safe term) and wait and see if she comes on her own, then do it honey. I can see a very peacful birth for you and her. I have a video that will make you cry (I bawled my eyes out) but it has alot of great ideas on rememberance photos and things (if you would like that) I can't express how strong you are and what a great mommy you are to all 3 of your girls. (((huggles))) Much love mama. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NJVU4XTNjzA&feature=related

[iluvmygirls]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 8:25 PM

You are such a strong women and I will continue to pray for you and your family. I hope you have a great vacation.

[JoeyuxDPapillon]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 8:28 PM

I'm praying for you and your family! Hopefully you can relax a bit while on vacation and as you said, enjoy what time you have with Carleigh. Keep us updated, and I'll continue praying. I love you!

~Joya

[lynn63042]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 9:13 PM

Gosh it has got to hard to answer all the "pregnant questions" from strangers all the time in public. You are such rock Holly I am so proud of how you are handling everything... I do believe your story will be told to be an inspriation to others some day....

[lovemy918]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 9:35 PM

What a big help! I know its going to be a rough road...but your such a strong girl...We're praying for you.

[jaydensmama23]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 10:40 PM

I know that there is no one in this world to get you to even think about terminating!  I am so proud of you for being so strong.  I always think about you and your baby before I go to sleep at night.  I have told everyone I know so that they will think about you as well.  You are a very special person and I hope you can get some relaxation on your vacation.  Thank you for keeping us informed here.  Take care!  Rebecca

[Assila]

Dec. 17, 2008 at 11:47 PM

Thank you for keeping us all posted on Carleigh! I am happy the wait of not having to pay for the funeral has been lifted from your shoulders but hate all together that you have to have a funeral for your baby daughter as I bet you do. Its a love hate thing. You are so strong! I hope that heaven forbid I was ever in your same place that I could be nearly as strong as you. Do you get to feel Carleigh's kicks?

[nsrush83]

Dec. 18, 2008 at 12:47 AM

Me and my church are praying for you...You know I am here if you need anything..