SO, Ramon tells me a few nights ago that just a couple months after the baby is born he wants to try for ANOTHER one!!!  At first, I thought he was kidding.....but he wasn't.  He's serious!   I don't think I can handle 5 kids, I can't handle being pregnant again, AND I have to have C-sections.  Not only do I hurt a lot for 2 weeks or more, but in February when this baby is delivered it will be my 3rd C-section.  I honestly don't think my uterus can handle another pregnancy.....there will probably be too much scaring.

The ONLY way I'd consider being pregnant again is if I were to be a Serrogate for someone else.  Don't we have enough children to take care of?

Maybe he'll change his mind once the baby is born and there's sleepless nights of crying and feeding.....we'll see! 

 

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Boobi...
Dec. 20, 2008 at 12:10 PM

Oh my!!! My husband said he wants another one after this one too...but I am DONE. It would be 3 for me if we had another...I cant imagine 5!!! That is a lot of children. More power to the moms that have done it or want to. men dont understand how hard pregnancy is on a womans body. Well, hopefully he will change is mind, but you never know what Gods plans are for ya! LOL!

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chu-chu
Dec. 20, 2008 at 4:11 PM

My aunts got 10 if that makes you feel any better,lol!Seriously he could very well change his mind once this one is born,like you said all the responsibility that will be soon to come.Maybe he's just getting impatient for his new lil man to come out!

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wendy728
Dec. 20, 2008 at 4:41 PM

Woah!!!  Really??  What did you spike his drink with?  Tell him when he can carry and deliver the baby then there will be a 5th one :)

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sunny...
Dec. 21, 2008 at 8:36 PM

Oh I say wait at least 6 months before even looking at thinking about it. You'll be  busy enough and might decide no.

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