I wanna kick him in his effen head soooooo bad!!!!!!

[bluntlyhonest]

I have been divorced from my 3 sons' father for 12 years, so it's not about me and him. This is about my sons. They stay with him every other weekend so he has 12 out of 14 days to do whatever he wants. This is his weekend to have them, but he is out on a date. I don't care who he goes out with as long as she treats my sons good. My sons called me about 7pm and told me they want to come home. Well I went and got them but told them to call their father and tell them I was picking them up. They called and he didnt answer and still hasn't returned their call. WTF!! It's 9pm. What if they were calling him cause the house is on fire or some other emergency?? I had planned on going to Nashville 9which is an hour and a half away) to see my mom and fiance tonight. Glad I didnt go!!! He needs to get his effen priorities straight!!!!!!!!!!!! Just needed to vent for a minute.

[NicolesMommy]

Dec. 27, 2008 at 10:34 PM

Aww sweetie, I have SOOO been where you are today! Once a couple breaks up & the mom has the kids the majority at a time the men tries to start a new life & screw the kid. My ex is still doing that to my kid. When I broke up with him YEARS ago he said to me, "I wqant the whole package or nothing." WTH!!!! I have no idea why men do this, but if killing someone was legal then I would've done it. I would tell your ex that he best see his kids when he is supposed to in order to keep the child's mentality stable! He should NOT eb able to be in & out of their lives-they need to feel VERY important in their Dad's lives. Tell him to date when he does NOT have the kids!

Best of luck-I am sorry he is an ass!!!!!

[lynn63042]

Dec. 28, 2008 at 1:06 PM

what an idiot... men are dumb!

[angellady535]

Dec. 28, 2008 at 2:08 PM

 You let him go because he have problems so you know he's unstable and he put the wrong things first . So now you know  not to leave trusting everything will be all right . And stay in touch with your childrens .