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Jealousy and is the grass greener?
- Jan 1, 2009 at 8:56 PM
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I was reading this post question on jealousy. And this anonymous person said they're all skinny n blonde and hates the dirty looks but then goes on to mention that we have to 'share the limelight'. My feelings are why do you have to be in the limelight in the first place. Why do you need to draw attention to yourself? Can't we all just get along. Yes most would like a partner in life but looks fade chicky! Even the hottest people, movie stars etc. have their mates, partners, etc. cheating on them because of what reason? Because even if you're hot, the newness of it fades, the excitement at first becomes the norm. I loved this one phrase I read.... "The grass may look greener, but it's just as hard to cut!" Therefore it's ok to look cute and even being modest you can look good. It's not and shoudnt be a competition for how much attention you can get from others. Be happy inside not an attention whore. Leave the people that are happy couples alone. If people have insecurities...it's not always due to surface stupidity. It could be mostly cuz of bad stuff that has happened and they have to deal with daily. Be nice to your 'sisters, friends, girlfriends, relatives' and get over yourselves, your heiness, hottness, hoochies!
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Do you know that song "No one is to blame from Howard Jones? Someone will always be prettier, smaller, better, and whatever. I'm going to look for that song and have it on my playlist, dedicated to you and all the ladies out there.
Amen sister
lol. i'm so there. it's not funny! i gotta fix this in me tho. i'm so done and over it!
Your Beautiful Girl. Inside and Out.. Because of imperfection, our Confidence level plays with us... You're strong girl.. you might not think so, but you are... everything and everyone that has done you wrong, has made you stronger... these attention whores are not happy with themselves but that's something they want that YOU have.. (Happiness) So in turn, they are the ones that are Jealous of you..
P.S. I aint afraid of telling you so, so I don't care who reads this... (yah me!!) lol.
Thanks 'weaksauce'. I appreciate what you said. I'm strong at times but my low points are pretty low. I'm working on them. : ) Thanks for being there for me. And I'm proud of you too! You know what I'm talking about too!
I had insecurities cuz of things happened in my life. You are oh so right. Jeaolosy is terrible. I would get sick to my stomach jealous sometimes. I prayed about it and know i might slip up now and then but i am learning why i feel that way and Jehovah has helped me alot. They are some women who love to take men away from women but it always ends up in disaster. It happened when i was married and now they are not together and the new woman is fighting with her over my ex. I know Jehovah hates a divorce but i am so glad to be out of that mess!
i think if people get dirty looks it because of the way they dress. people dress so slutty. especially those that have good looks. that's when i give dirty looks anyway.
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When I feel jealous I feel so crappy inside, I hate feeling that way! It makes me feel worse inside than most anything.
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