update on how everything has been...kinda long

[hayleesmommy07]

ok so just figuired i would let everyone know how things have been cause i havnt mad an updated post in almost a month.

Things have been pretty good,as alot of you know my nephew who i havnt seen in 13 years came down,he's leaving on the 8th & honestly as mean as it sounds i couldnt be happier. He is one of the worst children i've ever meet,totally disrespectful!! Long dramatic story to tell it all but when it comes down to it i rly dont want to see him again he's only 16 & he thinks he should get the respect & authority of an adult yet he acts like he's 6 its really annoying. he tells all us adults off,yes even my parents & his father,seriously how disrespectful is that. so yuh luckily he's going back home in 3 days.

lets see than there was Christmas,that was great it was Haylee's 1st & so perfect. she loved opening presents but deffinatly loved playing with them more. & christmas day she was so excited she wouldnt take a nap for anything lol she got so much stuff i have no idea what to do with it & she's about to get even more because her birthday is in 2 weeks!!

than after christmas of course was new years that was pretty eventful lol new years is when all my pains & worries started. we went to a party we go to every year & everything was fine we were having a great time laughing & joking around with friends & family. hubby was trying to get the host of the party drunk lol than i started having contractions. since that night ive had off & on contractions everynight & most of the days. other than the contractions starting though we had a blast at the party even though it ended early with me needing 2 go home & relax. poor Haylee couldnt make it untill midnight so she feel asleep around 10-11 lol she really tried her hardest though. we all went to bed around 2-3am & then on jan 2nd it was my birthday!!!

My birthday was great!! got up in the morning & played with Haylee & Derek than we got ready & went to disney. well since Disney has a new thing now where u get in free it was great cause i already have an annual pass so instead of getting in free they gave me a 75$ gift card so i got Haylee a new toy,Conner a cute little mickey mouse its really soft & rattles,& i got me a cute new mommy bracelet. my parents took me,derek,& Haylee to dinner for my bday at my fav disney resturant we all hung out at epcot than went home & they surprised me with a very delious cake!! derek got me the professional photos i wanted of all of us before he left for basic & my mom is getting me a new charm for my mommy neckelace,as soon as i decide which one i want lol

lets see than Today i ended up having to go to the hospital b.c ive been having some nasty discharge & its making me soaked to where i have to wear a panty liner...turns out its not my bag nor infection its my plug. i was having pretty strong contractions almost the whole time we were there but no pattern to them so they sent me home. although they did say im 10% effaced & 1CM dialated so if Conner continues the way he is,it wont be long untill we see him. as excited as i was to hear that news i also want him 2 stay in a little longer & make sure his lungs are matured enough. so now i gotta take it easy as much as possible. which is hard with me nesting lol

well thats about it thats whats been going on the past month & nothing is really going to be happening the rest of the month either since Derek leaves for Basic Training soon. Haylee's bday is in 2 weeks,the 21st,her birthday party is the 24th & than Derek leaves 1st week of feb. its gonna be really hard because he'll be in basic for 2 months & then his career training will be at least 4 months so i'll be on my own with 2 kids a year apart for 6 months by myself. but whats even harder is knowing the fact that he wont get to know his son really at all. i also hope that Haylee doesnt forget her daddy in that 6 months. i just hope & pray that God will give me the strength to do all this lol

well hope everyone had a great Christmas & New Years!!!

 

[meghan925]

Jan. 6, 2009 at 1:42 AM

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[twinzplusmor]

Jan. 6, 2009 at 10:00 AM

aw im glad you had a great birthday! sounds like you all had a blast! congratulations on the new baby soon. and things will work out with your husband being gone im sure! good luck in all the things to come your way!

<3 Meisha

[lakensmom]

Jan. 18, 2009 at 7:38 PM

sorry about your nephew properly the way he was raised,Im so glad that you had a great holiday and birthday cant beleave you turned 20 and I just turned 30.Lucky you....

[OmsYankeeMama]

Jan. 18, 2009 at 9:13 PM

Don't worry about him getting to know his son. My Fiance was gone for 14 of the 15 months his son was alive due to a deployment and after he got home they were best buddies. You'll due absolutely amazing with 2 kids. And when it gets hard being by yourself, remember, Hubby is doing this for all of you. The economy sucks right now, so feel blessed. The Army will be as good to you as possible.

Good luck Mama