Kids always Fighting

[allykittee1994]

  Today has not been a good one .  Today and everyday it start with telling the kids to get up. then i hear some grumbling and whining how tired they are.  I tell them again to get up.   They finally do get out bed then my youngest whines that he cant dress himself .  My oldest eight tells him to shut up.  they start back and forth and thats how my day starts.   We finally get in the car drive to school all the while they are arguing about who knows what probably whats for lunch or what special thye have today or what color the sky is.  Thye can argue about anyting and everything.  We finally get to school get to thier class and finally peace and quiet.  Though not for long i work in the cafateria were thye go to school.  Ok no break there either.   Then we get done School.  We get in the car and hear we start agin .  I tell them if there good they can get something to snack on at Walmart.  I tell them i have to pay bills and go to the bank first.  Hear we go again my youngest starts singing oldest starts wining he is annoying me tell him to shut up.  She starts crying.  I start yelling from the front seat for all of them to stop fighting and be quiet.  That didnt work so well either.  We finally get to  Walmart get out.  They start arguing over who going to push the cart Jimmy starts whining Britney always get her way.  I stick him in the cart and tell them both to stop.  All the while people im sure are staring at me thinking what a mother.  I giving them a big lecture and they just keep it up. Would have just walked out but needed animal food for my farm of animals cats dog rabbitts Guinea pigs Hamster and Fish.  Like i dont have enough to take care of with two whiny kids.  We finally stop get all the stuff out the door my son takes off the door where the carts come.  Im yelling at him to stop,  Some more stares at onlookers outside im sure.  IM trying to open the door for my daughter to come out and the door hits her arm.  I should just give up at this point.  Again we start Britney starts crying Jimmy is whining and im am totaly at my wits end.  I tell them to just get in the car.  I put the stuff in the trunk.  Get in Britney is yelling at her brother you always get everyhting you got one more cookie than me mommy likes you better.  Finally i had it  I tell them to just Shut up .  I started with a lecture about how lucky they have it and not many get have as much as they do.  I told them they are ungrateful,  Probably dont even know what the word means but i just keep on.  I said how would you feel if something happened to each other you would both be sorry.   I look back both are asleep and everything is quiet.  Probaly didnt hear a word i said and didnt understand or care...   Sorry so long the moral I was just venting and tired of the kids fighting and all in all they were just tired and didnt hear anything i said.  I still love them no matter what but when do they get it.    If ever . or is ii just me and i cant handle my own children  at time like these.  I feel so bad for yelling i just dont what else to do talking dosent seem to work either.....

[diamantina]

Feb. 12, 2009 at 8:54 PM

your kids sound like mine, always fighting 24/7. I hav ethree bys and sometimes gets physical.  i ahv ean 11 yr and 8 and 7  year old.   I dotn work i stay at home cleaning all day  so i get s ome peace for awhiel. ecpets for latily sinc eim running aound w/ arrends that my hubby normally does but he's deployed now.

 So I hear ya....