is it me being jealous or is she just trying to out do what i get my husband?

[butterflymom022]

my husband has always oved james dean. iv'e always tried to get what ever i could to get him things when i would find them. one year i spent about a thousand dollars on things for him . from then on when ever i find things i buy them. when we moved here his sister kept saying she knew her brother, nd he never liked him before. i told well she just realy does not know him then. well just latley she has tried to get him things to. sh eknows i don't work so how can i buy him things? i can but, not alot at one time. i hav egotten him books and the movies and wathces. today she got him another picture, but he already had it. i gave him the same one along time ago. now if you really want to get him something would'nt you pay attention to what he has already? or do you think she is just trying to show me out? i was wrong to tell my husband now he has someone else to get him things. i did say i was sorry for telling him that. i just feel like she is just trying to rub it in my face. she does not know anything about hm like i know from my husband. so am i just thining wrong? someone help me understand. i know today she came over and did not want to come inside my house, so i just slamed the door in her face and, told my husband she was at the door. then she takes him to the back room just to give him his check. oh my god. like i would not know. well i put a stop to her getting his check over there. now i am taking our lives back..

[Kay300]

Jan. 9, 2009 at 9:53 PM

Sad, Very Sad...........  They'll be brother and sister long after your done and gone........  Ridiculous..... (This Jealousy does happen alot though on both sides the sisters side and the wife's side.....  but its ridiculous... but it does happen..... you really need to get a grip on yourself... -- If your marriage lasts someday this Rivalry will subdue... and you will both get along......  if you don't do too much damage in the process...